Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

[Theorist]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

@diwana

Its not an attack.

Merely truth.

You will not find too many women wishing/looking forward/ to live single, yet you will find lots of men who do.

What a bunch of crock! I never wanted to get married. I made Me hubby wait for 7 years that’s just me..i bet there’s a billion more. Unless you are strictly talking about women in Pakistan. In that case, it’s simply because they are not financially independent but men are, so it’s easier for men to want to remain single…

[Reha]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

@diwana

Its not an attack.

Merely truth.

You will not find too many women wishing/looking forward/ to live single, yet you will find lots of men who do.

Your opinion does not count as the truth so stop pretending it is.

Like I said, you should refrain from attacking women every chance you get…its annoying and small-minded.

[diwana]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

@Theorist

What a bunch of crock! I never wanted to get married. I made Me hubby wait for 7 years that’s just me..i bet there’s a billion more. Unless you are strictly talking about women in Pakistan. In that case, it’s simply because they are not financially independent but men are, so it’s easier for men to want to remain single…

What a crappy answer!

You said I made me hubby wait for 7 years. So you did get married.

I said not many women wish or want to live single compared to men.

If women wish that, then majority do that out of disgust, been rejected or been hurt.

If men do, majority of those do that for living a life filled with fun.

Here I am not condoning or supporting these men.

[diwana]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

@Reha

Your opinion does not count as the truth so stop pretending it is.

Like I said, you should refrain from attacking women every chance you get…its annoying and small-minded.

Not sure why you take it as attack or annoying? Feel free to disagree.

[Reha]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

@diwana

**Girls are not obsessed with marriage, it is their need.

Off course some deny.**

Thats the attack.

@diwana

I said not many women wish or want to live single compared to men.

If women wish that, then majority do that out of disgust, been rejected or been hurt.

If men do, majority of those do that for living a life filled with fun.

Here I am not condoning or supporting these men.

That’s where you start to change your story.

@diwana

Not sure why you take it as attack or annoying? Feel free to disagree.

Its annoying because you make things up and post them as if they’re the truth. According to who?

You provoke women by saying women NEED marriage and men can choose not to marry if they want a life full of fun.

As far as I can see, men NEED women much more. Its MEN that propose to a woman, pursue her, marry her, etc. Why don’t women do these things? Because they can very well live their entire lives without seeing your faces and its okay. If you don’t believe me, you can ask your neighbor. Go to her and say “do you think you will be happy if you never see me again?”…don’t be surprised if she says “yes”.

A man will NOT survive…he NEEDS marriage in order to satisfy himself in a halal manner. If you tell me that’s not true…well…then we’ll all know you’re fibbing.

[diwana]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

@Reha

Thats the attack.

That’s where you start to change your story.

Its annoying because you make things up and post them as if they’re the truth. According to who?

You provoke women by saying women NEED marriage and men can choose not to marry if they want a life full of fun.

As far as I can see, men NEED women much more. Its MEN that propose to a woman, pursue her, marry her, etc. Why don’t women do these things? Because they can very well live their entire lives without seeing your faces and its okay. If you don’t believe me, you can ask your neighbor. Go to her and say “do you think you will be happy if you never see me again?”…don’t be surprised if she says “yes”.

A man will NOT survive…he NEEDS marriage in order to satisfy himself in a halal manner. If you tell me that’s not true…well…then we’ll all know you’re fibbing.

Like I said, its not an attack. You are being sensitive.

Some deny, is a fact. Isn’t it?

I do not want to turn this to a long… men versus women…discussion. We have discussed who needs who more. And you know I always will say Both Need each other…BUT…Women need men more.

Cannot be refuted by the world wide experience we all live in.

Women do not propose for fear of rejection. Men do not care as much as women,… for being rejected.

Halal no halal is not the point of discussion then why bring that?

Back to topic by the way. Why they are obsessed with marriage: Because they have needs. Legitimate needs.

Nothing wrong to accept it.

[Reha]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

@diwana

Like I said, its not an attack. You are being sensitive.

Some deny, is a fact. Isn’t it?

I do not want to turn this to a long… men versus women…discussion. We have discussed who needs who more. And you know I always will say Both Need each other…BUT…Women need men more.

Cannot be refuted by the world wide experience we all live in.

Women do not propose for fear of rejection. Men do not care as much as women being rejected.

Halal no halal is not the point of discussion then why bring that?

Back to topic by the way. Why they are obsessed wit marriage: Because they have needs. Legitimate needs.

Nothing wrong to accept it.

A) Your communication skills need work…lots of it.

B) Women don’t need men more…not now anyway. Im sure my grandmother needed my grandfather but its not true for me, Alhumdulillah.

C) Women don’t propose because they don’t need to or have to. Men are so aggressive in this, they will automatically do it. Why? Because if they don’t, they will lose their minds.

D) I don’t want to turn this into a debate either BUT like always…YOU HAD TO BRING THIS UP JUST TO PROVOKE SOMEONE INTO THIS DISCUSSION.

E) STOP pushing buttons.

[diwana]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

@Reha

A) Your communication skills need work…lots of it.

B) Women don’t need men more…not now anyway. Im sure my grandmother needed my grandfather but its not true for me, Alhumdulillah.

C) Women don’t propose because they don’t need to or have to. Men are so aggressive in this, they will automatically do it. Why? Because if they don’t, they will lose their minds.

D) I don’t want to turn this into a debate either BUT like always…YOU HAD TO BRING THIS UP JUST TO PROVOKE SOMEONE INTO THIS DISCUSSION.

E) STOP pushing buttons.

Again proving my point that you are being sensitive…I will say the fact as I see it. You have choice to disagree, bring support in you favor, or ignore…Why is it seen as a ‘provocation’ I still do not get. Isn’t it a discussion place?

All your points can be answered, but maybe you need to rest. And me too. Later.

[Theorist]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

Reha, don’t waste your time with diwana. He impresses me every time with his lack of intelligence and wit…

[Reha]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

@diwana

Again proving my point that you are being sensitive…I will say the fact as I see it. You have choice to disagree, bring support in you favor, or ignore…Why is it seen as a ‘provocation’ I still do not get. Isn’t it a discussion place?

All your points can be answered, but you need to rest. And me too. Later.

Its seen as provocation because you are deliberately trying to annoy people.

A FACT cannot be argued with.

AN OPINION can.

Your opinion is just that…merely an opinion. No more than that. You have no support, no proof, no claims, nothing. Zero. Zilch. None. Nien.

You think you’re putting women in their place…by telling them they will always need men and blah blah blah. Its annoying.

[IceSoul]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

@diwana

Its not an attack.
You will not find too many women wishing/looking forward/ to live single, yet you will find lots of men who do.

Hmmm… Sometime you speak the truth, Neanderthal Friend

[IceSoul]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

@diwana

Because they have needs. Legitimate needs.

Such as? (Other than physical, because they are not restricted to women).

[twin_born]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

they want some fun too

[Bish]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

@Enigmatic](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/members/enigmatic.html) very right n true

[Jolie]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

The ones who have no ambition (but so many ‘other type of desires’) obviously are, what else are they supposed to do with their lives apart from popping babies and b**hing about in laws and husbands? I’m not even talking about Pakistan or lack of opportunities there, I know many born and bred British Asian females who go Uni, get degree but disgustingly enough their ultimate dream is still to get married (mainly to an imported husband) and become a full time housewife. They don’t even bloody return a tiny viny fraction of their student loan, instead happily spend their entire life on social benefits. My question is why go to Uni, why take up someone’s space, government’s money when you have no real idea, purpose and ambition for your qualification? Its because of them stupid kinds degrees are losing their charms, Unis are becoming degree churning factories with every Tom, Dick, Harry just being there for sake of being there. These pathetic women and men make every tax payers’ blood boil and tell you what you actually have couple of very famous examples on this board.

[IceSoul]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

@Jolie

The ones who have no ambition (but so many ‘other type of desires’) obviously are, what else are they supposed to do with their lives apart from popping babies and b**hing about in laws and husbands? I’m not even talking about Pakistan or lack of opportunities there, I know many born and bred British Asian females who go Uni, get degree but disgustingly enough their ultimate dream is still to get married (mainly to an imported husband) and become a full time housewife. They don’t even bloody return a tiny viny fraction of their student loan, instead happily spend their entire life on social benefits. My question is why go to Uni, why take up someone’s space, government’s money when you no real idea, purpose and ambition for your qualification? Its because of them stupid kinds degrees are losing their charms, Unis are becoming degree churning factories with every Tom, Dick, Harry just being there for sake of being there. These pathetic women and men make every tax payers’ blood boil and tell you what you actually have couple of very famous examples on this board.

Agreed. BTW, as regards your question about going to Uni, a number of women study only so that they can get a better “rishta”. Kind of like a value-added good.

[Disney_Princess]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

@Jolie

The ones who have no ambition (but so many ‘other type of desires’) obviously are, what else are they supposed to do with their lives apart from popping babies and b**hing about in laws and husbands? I’m not even talking about Pakistan or lack of opportunities there, I know many born and bred British Asian females who go Uni, get degree but disgustingly enough their ultimate dream is still to get married (mainly to an imported husband) and become a full time housewife. They don’t even bloody return a tiny viny fraction of their student loan, instead happily spend their entire life on social benefits. My question is why go to Uni, why take up someone’s space, government’s money when you no real idea, purpose and ambition for your qualification? Its because of them stupid kinds degrees are losing their charms, Unis are becoming degree churning factories with every Tom, Dick, Harry just being there for sake of being there. These pathetic women and men make every tax payers’ blood boil and tell you what you actually have couple of very famous examples on this board.

What a load of tosh!!! I don’t know a single female who has worked her butt off trying to get a very good education, and getting the best grades possible and who is sitting at home on social benefits. This is especially not true among the British Asian females. I would like you to stop insulting us all when you make such pathetic remarks. They are not even true. I don’t understand your bitterness towards them. You may have only encountered a few in number and that makes you spew on the whole Asian community within the UK. Your views seem pretty restricted to those members that post their problems here - actually, only ONE member.

[Jolie]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

@Disney_Princess

What a load of tosh!!! I don’t know a single female who has worked her butt off trying to get a very good education, and getting the best grades possible and who is sitting at home on social benefits. This is especially not true among the British Asian females. I would like you to stop insulting us all when you make such pathetic remarks. They are not even true. I don’t understand your bitterness towards them. You may have only encountered a few in number and that makes you spew on the whole Asian community within the UK. Your views seem pretty restricted to those members that post their problems here - actually, only ONE member.

Of course I’m talking from my own experience, learn to read! I used the word many not all, so honey you probably aren’t included so take your ‘us’ rhetoric somewhere else. But if you want bigger picture, go check out the education and employment stats for British Asian (Bangladeshi and Pakistani in particular) women. The Asian community of Britain on the whole is heavily dependent on benefits, anyone who denies that is either suffering from pigeon syndrome or is genuinely a very ignorant person.

[Disney_Princess]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

^ Could you provide statistics?

[Jolie]

Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?

@Disney_Princess

^ No proof, no argument.

Who said I was looking for argument? If you are desperate for ‘proof’ there are plenty of government sites with relevant stats, you can check out yourself.