Re: Can your in-laws actually be like your real parents?
hi mano and everyone..
inshallah im getting married this yr and will b moving in with my in laws hes the only boy and has to younger sisters... to be honest i would never mention 'getting my own place' yes i can understand that families have dramas but thats wot makes life interesting! i cant imagine having my own place with no ronak..i think parents are a blessing also i have a brother so i reli hope wen his wife comes to my hs she luks after my parents (not as a slave) but jus helps them out in their old age..so wen i get married i have to follow my own rule and inshallah luk after his parents...
alhamdulilah i love doing jobs in the house, cleaning, washing ironing but the only thing i cant do is cooking!! iv told my mother in law already and iv sed i will inshallah try and learn in time...and i added that my fiance only likes his mums cooking so wots the point of learning now?? my mother in law laughed...so personally i think its about saying the right thing in the right way... i no my in laws will expect me to cook and inshallah in due time i will learn, my plan is to follow my mother in law around and pick up on things...
remember the more u respect his parents the more theyl respect u...never say 'no' they hate that! trust me...be nice and positive...but that dsnt mean they shud take advantage...if u cant do sumthing, say so but also say inshallah soon..so they no that atleast ur trying..
meri behen life is not easy...esp for girls, so b strong, dont let comments get to u..all they do is make u feel bitter inside...try to laugh things off..trust me its better for u! and jus try... inshallah Allah tala will make life easy for u...
sorry if i sed nething that annoyed u! its just my opinion...pray for me also..i no its easy to say things only the person going thru it knows how it feels...
xxx