How has life treated you?

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Not a smooth ride but not one that I regret embarking on.

Everything I did contributed to the person I am today...and I really have no problem with being me. :)

Allah swt tests all of us in different ways...and while I am sometimes upset at him for some things that have happened to me. I am also grateful for all that has not happened to me. And all that will happen.

:)

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Different from what I imagined. Whether it's been smooth or bumpy is difficult to say.. perhaps smooth, steep and lopsided would be a better description. And one or two big bumps in it.

koi aik problem ho to mai share karoo…agar maine yahan apni problems batana shuroo kar di to..log thread ko bhool kar muje tasaliyan dene lag jaye ge…:omg:

kyun jee, bachoon k diaper har hour baad change karney parr rahey hain? ..doctor ko check karwao .. !

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I have many regrets , but unfortunately I cannot go back and fix them. So I look forward and in the present. I have learned my lessons and try to avoid mistakes of the past.
Shukar Alhumdulillah it is all going very well.

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Well my life since i hit my teens were bumpy for me But i dont regret anything, Like psquared said its made the person i am. I've had alot of family problems and still problems going on. But hey i jus put them to the back of my mind now what can you do? I feel happy tho that im in the family i have i thank Allah i have a wicked family i really love them. Hmmm We'll see about my other dreams, and yes my next step is to tie the knot with the man of my dreams.. Inshallah i pray that happens.. If it doesnt my life will be bumpy forevaaaaaaaa :p

abhi tuk lotto nahi nikli i think.. :aliyish:

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i was on the express lane to realizing all of my dreams and wishes, then had a sharp detour to knock me way off.. still waiting to see if I can get back on :) at the mercy of the biggest planner of them all, no other choice!

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^ sarmad i'm kinda following your path ... a couple of things knocked me off of the express train ... now i'm tryin really hard to get back on it

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life has never been smooth for me...so i've learned to accept what i get...

“As a young girl like everyone else I had dreams but my life has not panned out as I had planned. Any happy recollections are a distant memory now and any hope I had has slipped through my fingers. I’m spiralling down into a black hole and I am in the deepest depths of despair.

My father brought untold misery into my life, he was violent and controlling. Unlike other children, as I was growing up, I was rarely allowed to see friends, never allowed to stay over and lived at home while at University. As I grew older, I had to constantly explain myself whenever I left the house and it was unacceptable for me to attend the phone or answer the door. I was desperate for love and I wrongly sought it elsewhere.

My self esteem and confidence deserted me and my social life and communication skills were stunted.

I am in my late Twenties now, my whole life has been a waste, I have so many regrets, I wish I could turn back the tide of time and faced my father, made my own decisions, decided my own fate but I was weak.

I am trundling off to the beach now, I want to see the sun go down for the very last time, my fate was sealed long before this. Lest we forget we all have to meet our creator and this seems like a good day.”

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REALLY BADLY!!!...i have suffered all throughout this journey and now i don't know if i can keep up with the pain...i am on the edge these days and i might just give up and let go of everything...

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Alhamdulillah

meh... could have been a lot better. would change tons of things if I could go back in time.

would've married Faryal Goher... and gotten a billionaire to adopt me...

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Alhamdulilah.

Life has taken a different direction that what I had envisaged but again..alhamdulilah for all I have.

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My life has had its ups and downs. I do have many regrets,i have done my share of mistakes which i wish i could undue. But i know i cant change my past, so i try living in the present and look forward... .But again my past have shaped me and made me the person im today, so im not sure if i would have changed anything if i had had the chance.. I like how im now, yeah there are things which i would want to change/improve about myself, but overall im satisfied with how im. I think my past have made me more mature and strong.

Currently life is going okish, still some personal problems which im trying to deal with, but overall its good at the moment..

Im still young, so i havent exactly accomplished what i want , im still waiting and working towards my goals. There are times i feel like giving up, when im really fed up and down. But i always manage to pull myself togther by focusing on the postive aspects of of my life.

My approach to life is to be prepared for the worse, but hope for the best:@:

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:hmmm:

Life so far? Well tonnes of mistakes, a lot of unhappy ppl (due to my actions) and i guess overall a rough ride until 2006, then with the blessing of Allah and support of my lovely parents (who gave me an undeserved second chance) i got my act together, appologised to almost every person i hurt, started taking responsibility and got a lil more serious about life and mashaAllah on the right track at the moment, no complains or regrets instead all i have is good memories even from those “bad times”. Yeah one complain might be is that i lost some amazing ppl along the way but ohh well thats life.

Keto does this mean what i think this means :eek:

P.S life is short, problems are part of it, so live and enjoy even the sorrows and InshaAllah good times will come, deir sey hee sahi aayeingey zaroor, never lose faith in Allah :k:

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Life, Ill admit it, was pretty simple and easy...til I got married.

lol, and how has it changed?