Re: Divorced men ..
While they’re being ‘sweetoo sweetoo’ they will always add a comment. Something along the lines of ‘well maybe you should have done this’ or ‘well if it was our child we would have done this’. It’s always a backhanded comment, showing concern yet adding their little piece to it too.
In my situation I didn’t share my issues with anyone until it was needed. I always put on a happy face when I was back in town so my parents/family/friends had no idea how unhappy I was or what I was going through. I guess that’s why a lot of people had questions when it did end. So rather than get upset or angry when people passed comments I just addressed what they were saying with the truth. I’m not one to put a ‘parda’ on, regardless of who it is.