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tl; dr? here is the summary - ek plastic botal aadmi ko hijRa bana deta hai 
but monk pal, gays and lesbians were around before man-made plastic. gender is not determined chromosomally in most of the animal kingdom, especially outside of mammals and birds, and gender changes mid-life are the norm than anomaly.
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I refuse to frandship queer because he’s queer.
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Plastic? Isn’t it more to do with the discharge of pharmaceuticals and hormones in wastewaters?
I read about it a while ago. Something in the Water Is Feminizing Male Fish. Are We Next? | Popular Science Freaky.
Although there is no evidence of it affecting humans yet, Monk, stop freaking us out. :hehe:
Man the twisted judgemental twats here make me sick.
Go to hell you obnoxious tools. God I hope you turds rot in hell.
Live and let live.
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I wasn’t talking about sin element. Not denying that homosexuality is prohibited and even condemned in Islam, Christianity and Judaism.
But let’s see here if we talk about sinful acts of homosexuality then yes, lie cheat or steal are also sinful acts.
I do not think anyone would really want to be a close friend of known liar, cheater or a thief.
If the lie, cheating or theft affects the person that is even more reason not to be friend or buddies with those people. Correct?
Bringing lie, cheat and theft in to discussion of homosexuality will not make these acts acceptable for a friendship.
Difference:
The difference is that homosexuality is based on being attracted to same sex and also… ‘obvious’ homosexuals are showing it indirectly.
A liar, cheater or thief is not known by other person unless it affects the person. I think if it comes to knowledge that other person is a liar, cheater or thief then it is fine to not be a friend or buddy with that person.
What I talked about homosexuality being different is when obviously homosexual is seen with the person as a close friend there is a social implication upon that person and maybe on his family or kids. Kids may start asking awkward questions. Other friends may start doubting the person own orientations as well.
Those who feel fine with it may do so but not everyone can get over the eeky feelings when around the same sex person who may have a potential to see you as a sex partner or even looking at you in a “different way”.
Jokes and puns around straight men (close friends) directing at each other to be gay are known to make each other irritated. But not everyone likes it.
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Practice what you are preaching.
Live and let live.
Let those people live freely who do not want to be ‘friends’ with homosexuals.
No reason for you to show temper tantrum and calling names or curse.
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Queer dude, I think their number is on a rise. But its very debate stater topic. How ever one thing I have noticed about
science-daans, they play very smart about this issue.
BBQ: the indigenous tribes who live near arctic, some of them don’t have boy being born any more.
And the recent gender-bender I read about it OPA or some thing.
Get this, if a substance is banned in Canada/Europe. In amreeka there are tons on law suites against it in last 10+ years.
Only thing amreeka doing is playing zardai, and delaying, and delaying and delaying testing.
Would you use it ?
What if all children bottles have it? all food cans have it ?
Remember, its not a theory, ITS BANNED IN many country.
There is just too much detail about plastic , I will tell later. how sea life and birds are choking on it 
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Hmm yeah… environmental issues are usually the least of the policy makers’ concerns unfortunately.
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Some here have said per religion homosexuality is a sin. I guess an appropriate response would be “those religions could use some reforming”.
Monk, we are doing our bit to minimuze procreating of gays - we don’t use plastic bags. Only cloth bags.
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Not an appropriate response.
Religions do not get reformed on something written clearly in scriptures.
When there is freedom to accept or not accept what is in scripture, then why should scriptures be ‘changed’/reformed?
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‘Reform’ is only possible when the religious practices is based on different interpretations or ambiguous ideas possibly interjected in religions which are causing obvious harm to people at large.
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Not making homosexuals buddies or close friends does not harm anyone.
Does any so called human-made reform will change that the practice/act in question will become sinless???
People are free to accept what is in scriptures or not. But to need to ‘reform’.
There should not be any hate or persecution for homosexuals however by people, they are still the creation of almighty and human being and all one can hope they reform themselves..if they wish to.
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What you’re talking about has a name…its called homophobia. But let’s be realistic here…you really think every gay man is going to look at you lustily as a target? No. Their taste is much more discriminating than females’…
The shoe really fits huh diwana?
why you so homophobe?
Dark memories you’ve buried?
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I knew that was coming and thought about editing my post to say that no this does not mean homophobia. But thought let it come so I can answer. 
No it is not homophobia since that means one has** irrational “fear”, “aversion” or “discrimination” against homosexuals.
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I am very sure you cannot find anything in my posts above which qualify being “homophobia”.
People choose who they want to be “friends” with based on who they find compatible with to associate. And that is not fear, aversion and certainly not discrimination.
Now the red part of your post.
Enjoyed very much.
Let me ask you three questions. Please answer one by one.
1- How do you know every gay man would not look at me lustily?
2- How do you know their ‘taste’ is much more discriminating than females?
3- Are you approving gayism or homosexuality?
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Go cry in the corner since Homosexuals are not approved by any standard. Read above about idiotic philosophy of homophobia.
Just to let you know cursing and showing temper tantrum are some of the traits of homosexuals.
Are you a homo cough cough???
I feel your pain by my heart my friend.
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Oh its definitely homophobia you have there my friend. Now the questions: 1) I know because not every man catches my eye. Not every woman catches yours. 2) It is much more discriminating…partners, clothes, fragrance, etc etc etc. It’s something I’ve noticed. 3) I am approving homosexuality just as much as I am approving stealing, pre-marital sex, shirk, eating pork, etc etc etc. To clarify, I am not approving it. I just know its not my place to condemn people.
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A person is recognized by his/her friends. Take one of the people of Kaume LOOT as a friend, I am sure this will be a really good investment for your akhira. Most of us are being brain washed to be politically correct to the point where everything and everyone is o.k. Lesbianism is an off shoot of feminism, and I am not surprised that a lesbian would get support on this forum given that it is prone feminism and man bashing.
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as a man who plays gay on the interwebs, i have to say just cos we be gay dont mean we no has sense of smells. but then again, god has maid someone for erryone, and maybe there is a nice gay uncleji waiting with a lit candle somewhere for you too..
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dear god please strike dead the idiots with lightning bolts before the homos. muchas gracias. (that is spanish for thanks, i hope your translate tool works).
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Let’s see here and discuss your answers.
You said:
**1) I know because not every man catches my eye. Not every woman catches yours.
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You talked about yourself here and me. But made remark about ‘me’ earlier. You have no idea of ‘my’ looks. So you just made a remark about me without knowing my looks. True?
Again, nothing to do with being homophobic since being acquaintance is not what I disapproved. One can work with them, associate with them casually with no issues.
**2) It is much more discriminating…partners, clothes, fragrance, etc etc etc. It’s something I’ve noticed.
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Yes, the attraction is discriminatory for anyone, no doubt about it.
But the question was based on you saying somehow gays are more discriminatory than females. You implied as if homosexual men are more discriminatory. Not proven.
**3) I am approving homosexuality just as much as I am approving stealing, pre-marital sex, shirk, eating pork, etc etc etc. To clarify, I am not approving it. I just know its not my place to condemn people.
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So essentially you are not approving it. And I myself did not ‘condemn’ it by any means. Only gave religious perspective. Didn’t even bring sin element until you talked about it.
**Yes, it is socially unacceptable and hence those who choose not to be ‘friends’ with homosexuals are justified.
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I only answered for those who would not want to make gays/lesbians ‘friends’. This certainly does not mean one has to be hostile to them as I mentioned above. 
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That made sense just like saying gayism is associated with being normal. 