Icono always knows what he is doing...I miss the thread about the girl with the whirlwind hair...did you end up marrying her Icono?
Unfortunately, situations like these make Pakistani girls out be mass-manufactured, green-card-hunting clones. Thats the sad truth of it all. It doesnt do much for their image and thats why a lot of girls here think girls from there are a joke.
I know it sounds harsh but its true.
They not ony get immigration for themseves but laso for their brothers and sisters and eventually for parents as well. In a way they are being used by their own family. Laos the girls themseves know little about the life in west, where you need to work ur behind off, the grass is greener on other side of the fence.
so, from what I've read, the following points are a summary of what we all have learned from the various threads on GS:
all Pakistani guys outside Pakistan are wh0res and have STDs. they don't want smart, educated, confident girls (aka local Pakistani girls) which is why they go back home and marry a pendo girl who is just desperate to escape her miserable life in Pakistan.
all girls in Pakistan are just dying to get out of Pakistan. they're all biatches who've never moved a finger, spoiled with an infinite number of servants and what not.. they would still kill to leave this miserable, servant-filled life behind.
guys in Pakistan are just the worst. goes without saying. a total lost cause. less said about them the better.
all Pakistani girls outside the country are super smart, beautiful, educated and accomplished. even though no Pakistani boy deserves them, they're willing to do all Pakistani males a gigantic favor by considering them for holy matrimony. they could have any gora they point at. after all, goras are just falling all over themselves to marry these girls. but these girls would rather marry the STD-infected, uneducated, illiterate, underachieving wh0res that are Pakistani men, so that they can sacrifice their lives for the greater good. why? because they have a heart of gold...
Thats what i am trying to point out mehnaz. These men won't get such girls abroad, like a school drop out, running a grocery store finds a pharmacist from Pakistan, a divorced ordinary looking 40ish find a beautiful 22 year graduate from Pakistan. They wont get these matches in west.
And i am just pointing it out people, not saying its right, don't shoot the messenger.
I thought as much. Don't worry, I wasn't shooting you. :p (not yet at least :D )
so, from what I've read, the following points are a summary of what we all have learned from the various threads on GS:
all Pakistani guys outside Pakistan are wh0res and have STDs. they don't want smart, educated, confident girls (aka local Pakistani girls) which is why they go back home and marry a pendo girl who is just desperate to escape her miserable life in Pakistan.
all girls in Pakistan are just dying to get out of Pakistan. they're all biatches who've never moved a finger, spoiled with an infinite number of servants and what not.. they would still kill to leave this miserable, servant-filled life behind.
guys in Pakistan are just the worst. goes without saying. a total lost cause. less said about them the better.
all Pakistani girls outside the country are super smart, beautiful, educated and accomplished. even though no Pakistani boy deserves them, they're willing to do all Pakistani males a gigantic favor by considering them for holy matrimony. they could have any gora they point at. after all, goras are just falling all over themselves to marry these girls. but these girls would rather marry the STD-infected, uneducated, illiterate, underachieving wh0res that are Pakistani men, so that they can sacrifice their lives for the greater good. why? because they have a heart of gold...
I personally am against the concept ... if the guys who live here go back to pakistan to marry grls then whoz gonna marry the grls here ... and then the same guys and their families complain that they can't find decent rishta's for their sister/cousin/daughters or watever
These people don't get it. They will only realize the extent of the nasty effect of their judgemental attitudes when they are themselves victimized by it in the future.
You people who claim the girls are better in Pakistan are essentially insulting Pakistanis living abroad for raising BAD CHILDREN.
Mind you, many of you who go back to Pakistan to seek mates, because they're more "pure" or whatever excuse you have, are a product of those very same parents. So what does it say about you?
If you think the girls here are demanding, nasty, vicious, STD-infected, too ambitious, too independent, too everything that would make a marriage fail, then you probably have those very same qualities.
Mind you, if a man has spent most of his life in Pakistan and is an immigrant abroad, I can understand why he'd go back to get a wife.
But guys who were born here and educated here - there is no reason for you to go back to Pakistan to get a wife.
For example, I know this very respectable family. 2 boys and 1 daughter. All three are docs. The parents have really trained them well, and there is no chichorapan. The boys both were taken to Pakistan to seek a bride (family didn't really look here at all), and then the sheer TORTURE the family went through trying to find a guy here for their daughter was laughable. They refused to take her back to Pakistan to find a mate. Which was odd, because they took their boys back. They finally did find someone, but she went through about close to 70 or so families before they found the right guy, and that too, he's from the boondocks and hasn't had many desi friends growing up and has almost no desiness about him. Meanwhile the girls the boys married are totally desi in their culture.
ok so...my hubby went on some "interviews" before we got our reltationship going. We were close friends though so I got all the juicy details.
The gals parents alwyas asked him if he ate pork, if he drank alcohol and if he ever had sex. Yup. Yup. and Yup. He doesnt lie. He is what he is, take me or leave me. The very vast majority said NO WAY.
Yet...here is a man who earns an incredible living, is highly respected in very high places. Is the best husband and father I could ever imagine.
So yeah he likes to have a couple of beers. And yeah he had an - ahem - wild time in college, And yup, he even ate bacon a time or two.
So thosewho spit on him for those transgressions, I thank from the bottom of my heart. Bevause thats why he was available to me and why I have the very best husband on the planet.
I know this is really hard, but you need to accept the fact that there are a lot of really messed up stereotypes in the Pakistani community. The way things are going, they aren't exactly going to disappear anytime soon. You can try and fight it as much as you want, but at the end of the day they will still be there.
If these guys want to go and get married in Pakistan, then so be it. It's not worth getting upset over. It doesn't mean there is something wrong with YOU (despite what people on this site may think). It's just their mentality, their preference, whatever you want to call it.
I suggest you work on yourself, meaning your self-esteem and confidence. That goes for all the girls who get upset when they see these situations or are having difficulties finding rishtas, etc. You know your abilities and what you are capable of, and take pride in that. Don't allow these stereotypes to define who you are and don't allow anybody elses opinions of you define who you are.
These people don't get it. They will only realize the extent of the nasty effect of their judgemental attitudes when they are themselves victimized by it in the future.
You people who claim the girls are better in Pakistan are essentially insulting Pakistanis living abroad for raising BAD CHILDREN.
Mind you, many of you who go back to Pakistan to seek mates, because they're more "pure" or whatever excuse you have, are a product of those very same parents. So what does it say about you?
If you think the girls here are demanding, nasty, vicious, STD-infected, too ambitious, too independent, too everything that would make a marriage fail, then you probably have those very same qualities.
I agree with what you're saying ... if you read my earlier post thats wat i wrote that these are the same ppl who complain about not finding good rishta's for their sister/daughetr or whomever ... but u still don't curse them that i hope this bad thing or that bad thing happens to them ... by doing htat ur just stooping down to their level or a level beneath them ... thats just wrong to curse them because they wanna marry outside of north america
If you could somehow convince a guy who wanted to marry a girl from Pakistan to marry you, a foreign born Pakistani girl (not talking about anyone in particular), how much would you actually want to marry that person?
If you could somehow convince a guy who wanted to marry a girl from Pakistan to marry you, a foreign born Pakistani girl (not talking about anyone in particular), how much would you actually want to marry that person?
I was thinking of posting the same thing.
If someone has already made up their mind about you based on stereotypes......not even taking into account your individuality........then be thankful that you've been spared of having to go through the whole rishta charade with such a person.
Instead find someone who is willing to get to know you as an individual.
If someone has already made up their mind about you based on stereotypes......not even taking into account your individuality........then be thankful that you've been spared of having to go through the whole rishta charade with such a person.
Instead find someone who is willing to get to know you as an individual.
hahahaha, these western girls need to jump off a cliff if they think all that!