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Then how do you find the time to get into these interesting situations...?
Anyway, your BIL should not be holding your hand or getting touchy feely with you. And you're the married one...why are you letting this happen?
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yeahh i wudnt hold hands with my BIL ever! unless i was hanging from a mountain and he held his hand out to save my life!
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My husband and his bhabi don't hold hands or anything but he does respect her and talks to her alot on the phone (we live in different countries).
she's a churail and I hate her.
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Hand holding = no no. I think the fact that you guys were friends before hand could have a lot to do with this. He may have had a crush on you back then? And maybe you getting married to his brother has been a bit of a shock to his system? Nonetheless, I say you need to put a bit of a stand still on the relationship. You are his bhabi now, remember that. Bhabi first, friend second. And you need to get this under control before OTHER people start talking. If you're sensing some sort of weird vibes from the relationship, trust me other people will be feeling them too. Stop while youre ahead, establish some clear boundries are remember, hubby comes first forever and always. Make him your bezzie for life cause he's the one youre gonna be spending your life with, not his brother!
P.s I missed you and your star plus life!
Nadzz forget what everyone is telling you over here ...we are just humans having our own personal opinions. But Allah Almight has also given hukum of "dewar sey parda" this includes Jeth , nandoi (SIL's husband ) and any other non mahram. I know in today's era you cannot do parda from dewar or jeth but we women can opt for best possible way of protecting our dignity. Only and only your husband can touch you , your BIL is no one to hold your hands (doesn't matter what his intentions may be).
It's not good and whatever your BIL may be feeling can turn into something ugly and can damage your relationship with your hubby (God Forbid) and this is your husband own flesh and blood we are talking about over here. There is no charm if anyone other than your husband is fancying you...I were at your place I would be seriously worried about it
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OMG, why??
Why would you hold hands with your brother in law??
Jeez I don't even hold my brothers hand.
Heck no! Its Oprah! 
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Such a gross thread. The main word in BIL is BROTHER people, wake up!
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OK
firstly its not gross because the word BIL is a western term, meaning brother by law only, not biological. and theres nothing gross in my thread. i didnt say anything explicit an secondly....i have cut down on my communication with him, so chill guys....these things are not rareor shocking men will like women, as long as its not mother or sister, its pretty much an open field...
anyway i was sensing he was becoming abit attached so i mellowed down abit with him last few days.
Heck no! Its Oprah! :)
its the nadz show...thats it....
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what a thread .. 5 Stars
yeahh i wudnt hold hands with my BIL ever! unless i was hanging from a mountain and he held his hand out to save my life!
Yepp:D
and omg, we did hold hands...lol...........omg, is this normal?
*Was it to cross the street? *
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I think you've been incredible naive to be holding hands with a man other than your husband.
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Its true...i would never hold my brothers hand unless there was some real reason to do so...and brother in law is like a big NO NO!!!
Nadz...your doing well to cut down on the communication
With all due respect, this is one of the reasons girls shouldn't get married young-not pointing any fingers at you Nadz (I have no idea what age u r!)...as a lady matures she knows whats right and wrong most of the time!
nadz is an OLD horse!
I think you've been incredible naive to be holding hands with a man other than your husband.
I don't think it's naive. I think she likes the attention and is flirting. You've got to be a complete idiot not to realize some of this behavior is inappropriate.
Call it what it is, Nadz. You are immature and enjoying the attention you're getting. You've encouraged it. Suddenly it feels too real and you're finally realizing you've crossed a line.
I hope this means you're growing up.
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Chalo yar nadz..this issue is pretty much solved now and you know what to do. Let’s start with another real life dilemma of yours 
maybe we can find something more amusing and interesting to read 
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This is why islam orders women to observe Hijab (physically and spiritually) from ALL NON-MAHRAMS including the brother-in law.
If only our desi households didnt think it 'normal' to have friendships with BIL. :(
