sweefs
March 18, 2014, 2:39pm
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Re: Will you refuse a girl if…
Most of the guppans will refuse such a girl for their brothers… still women say men are narrow minded creatures.
All desis people have this mentality… wherever they see a guy and a girl… they are having an affair/illicit relations/loose character… blah blah.
When I was coming to Montreal, the Egyptian girl in my team arranged a farewell lunch for me and invited other teammates as well. She does it quite often to celebrate birthdays of teammates etc. Thankfully she is not desi, otherwise her future MIL or SIL will faint if they hear that she arranged farewell to na-mehram men and often had coffee with them in cafeteria.
Having lunch with office colleagues is not a big deal for me… I will consider other important issues during the rishta process, like her personality, mental compatibility with me and/or her future ambitions and how they relate to mine.
why are you generalising when people/desis in this thread have refuted the idea of judging someone to be immoral or of “loose” character if they are having a lunch? seeing a guy and girl.. in what context?