Re: what are the chances that your BIL fancies you?
my goodness.
Nadz, you said that you found one of your BIL's comments to be weird (about not being allowed to talk to you). So listen to your intuition. If you felt that comment sounded like a red flag, then maintain a healthy distance from your BIL. I'm not saying that you should go out of your way to ignore him all the time, but be more careful about your interactions with him and limit the time you spend with BIL and INCREASE the time you spend with your husband. By doing so, you'll be giving your BIL the message that YOU are off-limits and he shouldn't even entertain the possibility (that said, neither should u).
You're newly wed and your marriage is at a more delicate stage right now because you're trying to establish strong bonds with your husband and in-laws. So, keeping that in mind, be mindful of your interactions with your BIL. You don't want to behave in a way that could give rise to suspicion in others n possibly jeopardize your marriage.
Put yourself in your husband's situation. It's not fair to him. And although your BIL's attentions might seem flattering now..........what if they get way out of hand later on? Prevention is better than the cure.
Nadz, what would Life1 do without you?
One thing I will just throw out there for you:
You should think twice before being close friends with your BIL. He isnt your brother, husband or father. He is at the end of the day a man and fully capable of falling in love with another woman that is not his sister or mother.
I completely agree with your anwser and i need not say anything else :)
Re: what are the chances that your BIL fancies you?
Nadz, I'm sorry to break it to u, but the problem is that u r a sex bomb.
Unfortunately it is a condition that cannot be helped and you just have to learn to live with it. I know that all the men will be swooning and dropping like flies around you, but you know, it's just a part of this condition, please remember, it's NOT your fault.
May I suggest you read the self help book, "How to cope with being a sex bomb", it's very informative and helpful and will assist you to take control of your uncontrollable allure and get on with your life in a positive manner.
Nadz, I'm sorry to break it to u, but the problem is that u r a sex bomb.
Unfortunately it is a condition that cannot be helped and you just have to learn to live with it. I know that all the men will be swooning and dropping like flies around you, but you know, it's just a part of this condition, please remember, it's NOT your fault.
May I suggest you read the self help book, "How to cope with being a sex bomb", it's very informative and helpful and will assist you to take control of your uncontrollable allure and get on with your life in a positive manner.
LOLLLLLL
Re: what are the chances that your BIL fancies you?
^ hehe
Yes Nadz, RH is right. You have Kavorka!!
What a sick thread!!!
Havent been on GS for a while but clearly sum ppl haven't changed at all!
im sorry, i dont get whats so sick.....so its sick that a man or woman fancy or may fancy someone whose shock, horror not related to them.....BIL is only a legal western term. islamically it means nothing. .
What a sick thread!!! Havent been on GS for a while but clearly sum ppl haven't changed at all!
yes, and your still uptight as usual. welcome back.!
Hand holding = no no. I think the fact that you guys were friends before hand could have a lot to do with this. He may have had a crush on you back then? And maybe you getting married to his brother has been a bit of a shock to his system? Nonetheless, I say you need to put a bit of a stand still on the relationship. You are his bhabi now, remember that. Bhabi first, friend second. And you need to get this under control before OTHER people start talking. If you're sensing some sort of weird vibes from the relationship, trust me other people will be feeling them too. Stop while youre ahead, establish some clear boundries are remember, hubby comes first forever and always. Make him your bezzie for life cause he's the one youre gonna be spending your life with, not his brother!
P.s I missed you and your star plus life!
Agree
Re: what are the chances that your BIL fancies you?
i think nadz thinks everyone fancies her
i think nadz thinks everyone fancies her
Listen mate, let't not point fingers... Like I said b4, nadz is unfortunate enough to suffer from sex bomb syndrome, she cannot help being a babe...
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Nadz is blates fit, agree with above comment.
p.s i wanna see your shaadi picssss!
Re: what are the chances that your BIL fancies you?
heheehehehehe blatently..........i am.......................:}
Nadz, I'm sorry to break it to u, but the problem is that u r a sex bomb.
Unfortunately it is a condition that cannot be helped and you just have to learn to live with it. I know that all the men will be swooning and dropping like flies around you, but you know, it's just a part of this condition, please remember, it's NOT your fault.
May I suggest you read the self help book, "How to cope with being a sex bomb", it's very informative and helpful and will assist you to take control of your uncontrollable allure and get on with your life in a positive manner.
nadz I think I fancy you too...
^ Good idea. It’s for your own good and safety, Nadz.
And don’t just limit the concealment of your dazzling beauty to a mere burka.
Become a ninja…don the nikab as well.
nadz, men are simple. so just follow this logic.
Is nadz = Hot; (if you need help in deciding, post a pic and we can corroboratively evaluate)
If yes, then ALL mehrams "fancy" nadz
If no, then maybe only your hubby.
End if;
Re: what are the chances that your BIL fancies you?
^^:rotfl: best replyyy of the threaddd …