Im not saying its me, or that he does…im just asking, what are the signsss…and are most or all men always inclined to have a crush on their sis in laws or bhabis…say your a similar age group and get along well…
i would say the chances of him doing anything about it IF he does is NIL…im just asking what one should look out for if theres any sort of chance…please note that this BIL get along very well and are very close friends as well…
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You should ask for raise from GS.
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Nadz, what would Life1 do without you?
One thing I will just throw out there for you:
You should think twice before being close friends with your BIL. He isnt your brother, husband or father. He is at the end of the day a man and fully capable of falling in love with another woman that is not his sister or mother.
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And what is NIL?? nanad in law ?
Im not saying its me, or that he does.....im just asking, what are the signsss....
the number one sign is when the girl wonders if he does .. then he probably does.
Why should your mind even go there 
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What is this Jerry Springer?
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No Cheegs, it’s the Khala Farzana show 
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Yes, having a crush on a brand new dulhan can happen. He definitely fancies you from what you have described. It also happens to close friends of the husbands. Your estrogen is high in this period after getting married and you are naturally attracted to others of the opposite sex. But I would strongly advise that you use all these urges on your husband and enjoy this period. It doesn't last long from what I have heard. lol
yehi kasar reh gyi thi baki sub maslay to ap dekh hi chuki hain apnay in laws se related wese shadi ko din kitnay huay hain? i remember nadz girl whining over wedding preparation hassles just a month ago i guess!
Im not saying its me, or that he does.....im just asking, what are the signsss...and are most or all men always inclined to have a crush on their sis in laws or bhabis....say your a similar age group and get along well...
i would say the chances of him doing anything about it IF he does is NIL....im just asking what one should look out for if theres any sort of chance....please note that this BIL get along very well and are very close friends as well....
what an entertaining forum...wish i had discovered it earlier! back to the dilemma at hand, sounds like you are the one fancying him.
Im not saying its me, or that he does.....im just asking, what are the signsss...and are most or all men always inclined to have a crush on their sis in laws or bhabis....say your a similar age group and get along well...
i would say the chances of him doing anything about it IF he does is NIL....im just asking what one should look out for if theres any sort of chance....please note that this BIL get along very well and are very close friends as well....
Huh!??! Weird question. Why would anyone look out for signs that their BIL has a crush on them?
I would say don't be close friends with your BIL in the first place... that is so weird.... being close friends with them.
I have 3 BIL's and I lived with my in-laws for 4 months after my shaadi. I made sure I was never alone with any one of them EVER and never struck a friendship even though I love the youngest one like my brother, I'm very fond of him but I never show it openly.... koi bharosa nahin koi kiya samajh lai..... these are very delicate relationships.
Nadz, what would Life1 do without you?
One thing I will just throw out there for you:
You should think twice before being close friends with your BIL. He isnt your brother, husband or father. He is at the end of the day a man and fully capable of falling in love with another woman that is not his sister or mother.
DITTO! PS stated it simply and well.
He's none of the above relationships. He's capable of falling in love with his SIL.......doesn't necessarily mean that he'll act upon those feelings in a strong manner (such as deliberately splitting up his bhabi and bro). And cousins can fall for each other.........even though one might say that they are "LIKE" brother and sister.
Strangely though.................this thread is very similar to Sara_Pathan's recent thread about a BIL falling for her cousin-bhabi.
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You think too much.
A smart woman would ignore something like that and even if signs existed would still ignore because as long as there's no move being made, why should you even bring it up and raise hell. chances are if you look for signs and share it with lets say ur hubby ur hubby would go nuts on such an accusation. n there are no specific signs. each individual is different. just because in one situation one action was equated to a bil having a crush on his bhabhi (eww) doesnt mean tat similar action taken by all other bils means the same thing.
dont let shaitan play with your thoughts. and occupy yourself with something.
i normally always recommend to ppl to wait before having your first child n get to know ur hubby but u i think really badly need an activity to occupy urself and a baby just might b a perfect idea.
lolzz u r funny.
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That is sick man!
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Ok rescue time.
Nadz is some one who is not scared to say what she feels. 
I have seen this attitude in girls a million time. They are ready to be “felt hassled”
hassle = cheerna
felt hassle = chir jana
I never EVER liked younger girls at any stage in my life, but accidentally when you come across them in public place or some thing, they are just so ready to feel hassled… Its F-en annoying. More they are in a group more higher hormones run. I try to change my way avoiding them.
I feel like going up the them and sayin I m not interested in your ------es , so don’t get too excited.
in short its GIRL THING. and NORMAL in girls world.
Nadz is just not scared to express it. Nadz shabash carry on.. showing us what girls are made of.
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Nadz dude, if you 'think' he fancies you, then ANYTHIN he might do will be a come on...even if he doesnt fancy you
personally i doubt he would fancy his brother's new mrs...come on that's just sick..he is probably bein friendly...but you know what they say, if 2 non mehrams live under the same roof then shaitaan can play tricks with your mind....
back off with the relationship, keep some kinda sharam and boundary...and just see him like a brother 'not' a friend etc.....it's better that no-one else points the finger, back off before any bezti gets done....and ur lovely 'friendship' is tainted....
p.s, do u reaaaaally think he likes you ? like what has he done....
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nadz...what has he done to make u think this...i think at the back of ur mind u think this..and u think it so much u had to open a thread..so spillllllllllllllllllllll lolll
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Well Nadz this sometimes does happen but I don't think you have to worry. Like Puchi said, keep some boundary and sharam and treat him as a brother and not a friend. Also, do not dwell on it much, it's not going to get you anywhere. Concentration should be on hubby dearest.
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I think it is quiet normal for the brothers-in-law to be extra friendly with the new bhabis in the house. I think it is just friendship and nothing more. It's his way of welcoming you in the family.
As long as he can stand up straight while talking with you, nothing to worry about..