The more men I meet, the more I realize that the more educated ones tend to be more arrogant and more full of themselves (which I guess they interpret as being confident). Maybe I’m guilty of this myself.
Is it better to go for someone that is more middle-ground as in more from a humble educational background? Does that make a man a better man?
Like, I know my dad is super smart, and he could have really gone places, but his finances really didn’t let him. So he’s just an average bachelors in business from a no-name school. But I think that humble background makes him a stronger and more humble human being.
Not sure I’ve met anyone from a really well educated background who wasn’t a *ick in some way or other.
The more men I meet, the more I realize that the more educated ones tend to be more arrogant and more full of themselves (which I guess they interpret as being confident). Maybe I'm guilty of this myself.
Is it better to go for someone that is more middle-ground as in more from a humble educational background? Does that make a man a better man?
Like, I know my dad is super smart, and he could have really gone places, but his finances really didn't let him. So he's just an average bachelors in business from a no-name school. But I think that humble background makes him a stronger and more humble human being.
Not sure I've met anyone from a really well educated background who wasn't a *ick in some way or other.
I think it is not matter of education, it is more to do with environment one brought up. I have decent family (in Pakistan we say upper middle class), but there is big difference in my children's behavior who brought up outside Pakistan and rest of my family back home.
Those living out are more humble and easy going, on the one in Pakistan is more snobbish and arrogant (due to so called class culture in Pakistan).
To me i would not compromise on education but prefer someone with good family (not interim of financial status but values and moral), these guys would be more likely to remain same despite change in the financial status.
I don't think being too educated has anything to do with arrogance. Everyone is different. And like Sara said.. just a bad trait. Some people are nothing and still arrogant. Some are full of themselves because of their wealth, good looks, good job maybe etc. Its just a behavior that isn't linked.. at least not to me.. with being too educated.
education has got nothing to do with arrogance. education is suppose to make an individual a better person . I know one of the most well off family of pakistan , their kids are very highly educated but yet they are so down to earth & polite. it's the upbringing , the values that parents teach & the environment one experience at home that makes a person arrogant or down to earth.
with regards to going for someone with humble educational background i would say one shd seek the values taught by your parents , the home environment . if all such factors MATCHES and i'd again say MATCHES then go for it. Because i believe a relationship cannot be saved by a soild educational abcking but by good values and morals.
i thought education made u humble ... well more educated ones r not easily impressed tht much is obvious cuuz of their own strong background but noot arrogant
Yea, def. I think it stems from a deficient adolensence. They have obviously given up a lot of social time to achieve what they have. Good on them. But ultimately a paper with "good work" scrawled on it (Regardless of which school its from) doesnt compensate for social development.
So to make them feel worth it :) They adopt educational snobbery. This does put them in good stead for many competitive spheres however, some schools actively engender such attitudes too.
It is only intellectuals that are humble. Even then they are secretly superior.
Anyway. I find ambition and arrogance greatly attractive. So whatever.
I think it is not matter of education, it is more to do with environment one brought up. I have decent family (in Pakistan we say upper middle class), but there is big difference in my children's behavior who brought up outside Pakistan and rest of my family back home.
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Those living out are more humble and easy going, on the one in Pakistan is more snobbish and arrogant (due to so called class culture in Pakistan).**
To me i would not compromise on education but prefer someone with good family (not interim of financial status but values and moral), these guys would be more likely to remain same despite change in the financial status.
Bragging about one's humbleness isn't too humble either. :)
Bragging about one's humbleness isn't too humble either. :)
It is not bragging it is an observation.
Masi jee do believe something called fair comment????
All I was trying to say that peoples behave differently due to brought up. And used my family as an example for both ends.
Let me explain to you, the people brought up out side pakistan are not humble because of some kind of god given quality,
It is because the were product of education system where, a millionaire and taxi drivers child would go to same school base of merit. It is same for most of peoples but only fair that we observes our family members more then others.
While in Pakistan, rich could afford to send children to privet school and only poor peoples go to government school thus creating a so called class syndrome.
If one really feels that telling these simple truth is bragging then i really do not know what to do.
the key is are u comfortable withhim..do u get along with him well..i know some educated ppl who are not so easy to get along with..stuck up ..and i also know guys who are not very highly educated but friednly and easy to get along with and personally if i had to choose between these i would prefer the latter..i find that soem people just use the education as a stamp to increase their value..but they dont bother to try to make themselves more open minded and understanding towrads people..so i see what ur saying..good luck
Behind every b*tch is a man who made her that way!
Not callin u a b*tch pcg im just trying to make a point.
Some girls are bitter because there are just too many losers about!
Sort yourselves out guys
AND AND AND can I just say... People mistake me for being snooty or arrogant at times but its far from the truth... I would say alot of girls build walls around them and its any decent guys duty to break those walls down!!
If you want the prize at the enddd... you gotsta work for it!
If not... well then there are plenty of 'easier' options available.