Thats a poor arguent my dear.
Humans are made of "teen", or mud/clay, does not mean that we and clay are the same thing. Try putting half Kg of clay down someone's trachea and see what happens. Same for Satan, made of fire but does not mean its same as fire and fire cannot harm it.
Moreover, all that i have read from Quran on the issue suggest its a physical place, like Quran 25-66, describes it as "Muqaam".
ANd in the end onus is upon you to prove that heaven and Hell are spirtual or whatever places, because there is no such thing as "spirtual place".
Read following hadith:
'The Book Pertaining to Paradise, Its Description, Its Bounties and Its Intimates (Kitab Al-Jannat wa Sifat Naimiha wa Ahliha)' of Sahih Muslim.
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Abu Huraira reported Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) as saying that: Allah the Exalted and Glorious, said: I have prepared for My pious servants which no eye has ever seen, and no ear has ever heard, and no human heart has ever perceived but it is testified by the Book of Allah. He then recited:" No soul knows what comfort has been concealed from them, as a reward for what they did". (xxxii. 17)
So, you can see that any imagination of Hell or Heaven that can come in our mind will certainly be not close to what it actually would look like in reality.
If you are thinking about having same body, same apples and grapes, same honey etc in Heaven, and same fire in Hell, than you are certainly wrong.
I believe, that a body will be given to Man, which will be quite different to what we have in this world. It could very well have far more senses than the five we have in this world, God knows.
So, lets leave it to Allah what He has in store for us, and instead put our efforts in doing good deeds so that we can get His blessings in this world and the hereafter.