punishing hubby by denying sex

coolgirl · July 29, 2011, 7:03pm

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I think Allah has provided women with more patience than men so I don't see myself just saying the heck with it and letting all the anger go.

TLK · July 29, 2011, 7:05pm

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Is it another way of saying that Allah as provided more sexual vigor to men than women? Is that a reason good enough for men to be allowed 4 marriages? :D

Theorist · July 29, 2011, 7:05pm

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Really? I can let go and forget about everything but then again it's usually my fault. Lol

coolgirl · July 29, 2011, 7:07pm

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rightfully so i think. Allah has made it very clear in the quran about husband and wife duties and needs. I think punishing either one for their rights is wrong. A wife should understand her husband's need and consider a punishment that does not interfere with his rights.

ll_xx_ll · July 29, 2011, 7:07pm

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hahaha cute

TLK · July 29, 2011, 7:07pm

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sorry for being nosy but just to make more sense out of your replies, are you a guy or a girl?

redvelvet · July 29, 2011, 7:07pm

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Alright TLK....maybe guys might not act like beasts.....but it would be interesting to research how they view and respond to sex. In comparison...based on what i've heard/read.....the need for sex in general is greater in men.

TLK · July 29, 2011, 7:08pm

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I like your answer CG. Very nice :k:

redvelvet · July 29, 2011, 7:09pm

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Yes, cool girl. Come up with another punishment...something less painful. Such as not feeding him and raking up his credit card.

Theorist · July 29, 2011, 7:10pm

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LMAO! I am a girl, dude!

ll_xx_ll · July 29, 2011, 7:10pm

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don’t laugh at my bro…it’s just that sometimes he;s not very bright

/runs and hides from bro

TLK · July 29, 2011, 7:12pm

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are you otherwise suggesting that feeding him (read as: cooking for him) is actually her duty? What an anti-feminist attitude. I am disappointed.

goddamniamsoawesome · July 29, 2011, 7:13pm

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If any relationship reaches that point, then counselling would seem like a good idea.

redvelvet · July 29, 2011, 7:15pm

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u-huh…okay.

ll_xx_ll · July 29, 2011, 7:15pm

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why are you bejamalo-ing?

TLK · July 29, 2011, 7:16pm

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what the …

how can you tell from a name like “theorist” that the person is a girl ..

Sara516 · July 29, 2011, 7:20pm

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I honestly don't know if this really happens or not...

btw this reminds me of Debra from Everybody Loves Raymond....there's an episode where he figures out that if he says "no" to her it makes her want him more...when she finds out this trick she gets so angry.

Theorist · July 29, 2011, 7:20pm

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^lol@redvelvet

redvelvet · July 29, 2011, 7:21pm

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^LOL...I remember that episode from Everybody Loves Raymond. SHe was livid when she learned about his strategy. BUT.....I think she wasn't mad at him about anything when she wanted to have sex....and that desire was increased when he said. Maybe if she had some previous issues with him....she might not have been so desirous of sex.

Krypton · July 29, 2011, 8:19pm

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well, how else do you think men should be punished?

whipped?