One of my frnd told me k WOH sirf tum sy apni battain munwa raha hy
TUM apnay parents ko munao
TUM he pak mai settle ho us k sath
TUM he sab khuch kero n woh khuch na karay
She even said k...........I dun think k he even lovez U
This is heart breaking 2 hear :(
Do u really think this is the casE?
Dekho Ishi88
aap ke dost aur people on gs forum (including me) will give you so many advices but
eventually its you who has to decide for yourself what you will do and what decision you will make.
Listen to everyone but only do that what is in your own interest and what you think is best for you.
Dekho na you said keh tumhari friend ne kaha hai keh...your future hubby yeah kehta hai aur woh kehta hai...only YOU know keh woh kyaa kehta hai aur kya chahta hai no one else.
Again have a good and in depth discussion with your future husband and i think you should also go to Pakistan with your parents aur jaise bhee to talk to him on person. I think its not wise to talk only online and get engaged and married without seeing each other in real.
But of course its without doubt keh its wrong that you should ONLY listen to him and that only YOU should compromise and not HE.
Sabh ko compromise karna parhe ga ji and again don't talk about this with him alone.....to be on the SAVE SIDE involve your parents and his family when you talk about important issues because although you both love each other life can be hard and selfish.
Just pray 4 me k everything works out well :(
Thx a lot 4 ur help :)
InshAllah everything will work out, just don't stress about it too much. Concentrate more on your studies. I'm guessing ul get married after you finish your course. Alot can change in 3-4 years! I'm sure by that time your parents will become adjusted to the idea of you moving abroad.
InshAllah everything will work out, just don't stress about it too much. Concentrate more on your studies. I'm guessing ul get married after you finish your course. Alot can change in 3-4 years! I'm sure by that time your parents will become adjusted to the idea of you moving abroad.
Dekho Ishi88
aap ke dost aur people on gs forum (including me) will give you so many advices but
eventually its you who has to decide for yourself what you will do and what decision you will make.
Listen to everyone but only do that what is in your own interest and what you think is best for you.
Dekho na you said keh tumhari friend ne kaha hai keh...your future hubby yeah kehta hai aur woh kehta hai...only YOU know keh woh kyaa kehta hai aur kya chahta hai no one else.
Again have a good and in depth discussion with your future husband and i think you should also go to Pakistan with your parents aur jaise bhee to talk to him on person. I think its not wise to talk only online and get engaged and married without seeing each other in real.
But of course its without doubt keh its wrong that you should ONLY listen to him and that only YOU should compromise and not HE.
Sabh ko compromise karna parhe ga ji and again don't talk about this with him alone.....to be on the SAVE SIDE involve your parents and his family when you talk about important issues because although you both love each other life can be hard and selfish.
I have seen him in real life many timeS.............usay Reality mai daikhnay k bad he mai nay us say shaddi ka faisla kia hy
He definatley is one in a million......and i love him lyk hell
I wanna thank u 4 helping me out
apna keemti tym dainay k liy n keemti advice k liy bahot bahot shukria
May Allah(SWT) help u at every stage of ur life Ameen!
thanks once again :)
Ishi, you're only 18 and still naive I think. It's too early for you to be thinking of marriage. Complete your studeies first and then see what happens. You were a child 3 years ago and he was still an ADULT. I totally understand your parents position. Why do you want to live in a country where things get worse everyday? He won't come and live in the UK, fine. I wouldn't advice you to go and live there to be honest. I say distance yourself a bit from him, baki shison main dehan lagao. It's too early for marriage.
Ishi, you're only 18 and still naive I think. It's too early for you to be thinking of marriage. Complete your studeies first and then see what happens. You were a child 3 years ago and he was still an ADULT. I totally understand your parents position. Why do you want to live in a country where things get worse everyday? He won't come and live in the UK, fine. I wouldn't advice you to go and live there to be honest. I say distance yourself a bit from him, baki shison main dehan lagao. It's too early for marriage.
I can't do this on my own unless Allah mian sendz (Mout ka farishta) who can take me to sky ...... :(
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I can't do this on my own unless Allah mian sendz (Mout ka farishta) who can take me to sky ......
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^stop watching a lot of movie.
i'd say the samething that u're still young, give it some time. enjoy ur life being a bachelor. Focus on ur studies..let the time decide about ur future.
What if it's an act? time pass? Have you met his family?
3sal tuk kon act ker sakta hY?
3sal tuk kon apnay din k 3-4hrz kesi ko day gA?
Kon apni zindage k saray raz batay gA?
Kon apni id'Z k passw0rdz kesi ko day gA?
flirt kernay walay zayada ersa nahe tiktay
I turst him more than myself :)
N yes i have met his family so many times......i still tawk to his mum n sister on fone
hes serious bwt me n DO wanna geh married 2 me........ buh khuch problems hy vich we still need to sort out
so plz pray 4 us
3sal tuk kon act ker sakta hY?
3sal tuk kon apnay din k 3-4hrz kesi ko day gA?
Kon apni zindage k saray raz batay gA?
Kon apni id'Z k passw0rdz kesi ko day gA?
flirt kernay walay zayada ersa nahe tiktay
I turst him more than myself :)
N yes i have met his family so many times......i still tawk to his mum n sister on fone
hes serious bwt me n DO wanna geh married 2 me........ buh khuch problems hy vich we still need to sort out
so plz pray 4 us
lol oh trust me ppl CAN ACT not only for 3 years but way more then dat. i've seen casses like that.