Re: Paki Boys and their hidden fiances...
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true, X2 Easier said then done ur a guy so you wouldn't know how a girls brain works
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^ Not True, guys and girls suffer the same when it comes to such things, we just have different ways of handling the situation due to the pressure of what the society expects of us.
**CE just because someone tells you they love you does not mean you close off the section fo brain called logic. **so the immaturity is to not be more aware, logical and sensible about the situation the chica had tossed herself into.
People walk away from bad relationships all the times, whether they have been in it for a few weeks or a few years
Agree with that.
Every man from every country and every woman from any country breaks up.
If the point was that guy was hiding his fiance, then there are women who hide their 'other' bf.
You do not hear many men whining about it simply they may not feel too comfortable in crying in front of the whole world.
No one is really so innocent in these kind of games.
By the way, is December a month to resurrect old threads?:)
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^ and whose multi might you be 
^ Not True, guys and girls suffer the same when it comes to such things, we just have different ways of handling the situation due to the pressure of what the society expects of us.
i havent seen them suffer the same Adra, these kinda guys are going out just to have "fun" no strings attached, but they cant tell the girls tht, bcoz then they wont get what they want out of her, instead then play with her, tell her sweet word tht she wants to hear. Then use her, abuse her and mov on.....
To adrasteia
Mine!
Better?
(I did not mean to. I just copied your name and pasted when another post was interjected between yours and mine! Geeze!!:))
i havent seen them suffer the same Adra, these kinda guys are going out just to have "fun" no strings attached, but they cant tell the girls tht, bcoz then they wont get what they want out of her, instead then play with her, tell her sweet word tht she wants to hear. Then use her, abuse her and mov on.....
lol all Men have once been players in their lives. Doesnt mean they dont eventually fall head over heels in love with someone and get rejected.
wow!! Im so flattered by the way you’ve addressed me all in Bold
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I dont know if most ppl walk away that late. I think it is a large number but based on my limited observations of my friends, I think majority ends way before it hits rock bottom. But then again, I only have my own observations to have that opinion, reality could be different
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PATHETIC!
true@adra, X2 Easier said then done ur a guy so you wouldn't know how a girls brain works....:p
but you see, i know better than most girls know how a girls brain works.
it had and has its benefits as well :D
but you see, i know better than most girls know how a girls brain works. it had and has its benefits as well :D
I'll let you in on a little secret, We make you believe that you know how our brain works, we pretend to be all dainty and fragile and you think you can take that to your advantage but in reality we are only enjoying the attention.
“bad boys” wont get rejected coz they will get Married to a good girl from pakistan as mummy wishes, he wont understand a word of what she say’s which means he will continue being a “player”
not to mention the guy’s who have been heart brocken and thinks it’s alright to go with every single girl to get over his first love in the hope to forget her…:hinna:
well not all guys are a smarty pant’s like you now are they “Mr Daashing”..
only one other person who uses tht word..
but when did I say that I think girls are dainty and fragile. I have seen some very strong women in my life and even on GS.
Mr Fraudia..actually 
actually guys know how girls work..thus the examples you have given where some guy is stringing along some chica for years. I think both genders understand each other much better than they claim, its just how they use the information or their failure to act on that insight in a proper manner that is the issue
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X2 how do girls work?
sometimes i think guys are soo simple and straight forward, then they do the weirdest things which gets me wondering are they really as innocent as they look:hmmm:
an plus ur speaking from experiance/observation, not every 18-30 yr old thinks with a mutured brain…
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Your argument about Pakistani guys is full of fallacies and a demonstration of general bias. Its almost like G.W. Bush trying to make a case for war against Iraq.
My cousin married a Turkisk girl, whom he was involved with for 6 years. He had to finish his Masters before he got married. Now they are living in Saudi Arabia and recently had a son.
His younger brother married a Turkish girl and is settled in Turkey. And youngest of the three who went to study there still wants a Pakistani girl.
My best friend married an Australian Gori, and they were going out for 5 years. She converted to Islam and now they have a daughter.
Another best friend went to Pakistan for his cousin's wedding and falls in love with a girl there; to the point that he wanted to get married to her. They got engaged and plan to marry in a year or two.
These are Pakistani men as well from different walks of life. No group of people are saint and none are so evil to be decapitated without a fair trial.
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I am not one to date and live that type of a firangi lifestyle, however based on what I have seen with classmates, work colleagues: Isn't dating a temporary 'time pass' (to you FOBs) thing anyway?
Lets take out the Muslim and Pakistani part of the guy and examine the dating phenomenon. Don't people hook up and break up frequently? Aren't many BF/GF couples living together even having children without the hassle of marriage? How many single unwed mothers are there?
On a societal level dating is a temporary arrangement where the man and woman can walk out at any point, so where does the fault lie? If those guys decided to end it because of their parents wanting them to marry/be engaged, you can call them names and place all the blame you want, but what did the girl do to make sure her man was going to become her husband? If she was complacent about it, then the responsibility (burden) should be shared.
I don't agree with dating, Islamically, but even if I did, I still believe dating is an imperfect system at best.
LOL no it's funny. Hey, at least they are saving their parents the headache, and such nice boys, actually getting married. It would be worse if they stayed with thse hoes.
okay so the sikh gurl should have known better, that being said..you shouldnt call them girls hoes especiialy since they been with thier guys long enough , to assume that thier relationships are serious. Maybe you should go look up the definiotion of hoe before dubbing sumone that
No. Many people use that word.