Re: My fiance is from back home…
uh an 18year old over the moon about marriage
are you kidding me 
Be practical about it
he doesn’t have a job, he hasn’t finished his education, you’ll probably move to UK and you’ll probably providing/supporting him more than he is supporting you.
I would say No to this rishta not only because you’re 20 but because he’s 18 and there are much more mature practical, good looking, honest men out there
Re: My fiance is from back home....
I told my mum just now.... I said that he isnt what i wanted. i actually had a few conversations with her in the care a few weeks ago to hint it out. But I said it straight up and shes like you wont be forced into anything... but if you say yes let me tell you that it will be a decision you wont regret. She doesnt wanna force me but she still favours him and this rishta.... so she kinda let go the fact that I dont wanna be with him and she believes everything will be ok over time.
Re: My fiance is from back home....
say no
not because of hurting, but because it is not something you want
plus
he seems to me like the paindu type
How? We don't know anything about him. Or am I mistaken?
Mughalprincess, why exactly do your parents favor him? Is it just the cousin factor, or does he have other qualities? Is it an option that you threat this as any other rishta, meaning talk to him on the phone etc etc before you decide anything?
Re: My fiance is from back home....
he SEEMS to ME like the paindu type
How? We don't know anything about him. Or am I mistaken?
Mughalprincess, why exactly do your parents favor him? Is it just the cousin factor, or does he have other qualities? Is it an option that you threat this as any other rishta, meaning talk to him on the phone etc etc before you decide anything?
Re: My fiance is from back home....
Mughalprincess, why exactly do your parents favor him? Is it just the cousin factor, or does he have other qualities? Is it an option that you threat this as any other rishta, meaning talk to him on the phone etc etc before you decide anything?
They favor him cos he is the son of my dads brother and my mums sister. We are kind of double cousins!! :S
Re: My fiance is from back home....
I have spoken to him and now i realise that we are different but at the same time HE is CRAZY about me.
Re: My fiance is from back home....
crazy in what sense?
overwhelmed maybe?
I have spoken to him and now i realise that we are different but at the same time HE is CRAZY about me.
Re: My fiance is from back home....
I have spoken to him and now i realise that we are different but at the same time HE is CRAZY about me.
immature hai.
Re: My fiance is from back home....
Crazy as in.. obsessively in love with me.
Re: My fiance is from back home....
oo so hes already in love with you? or has he been in love with you since childhood?
Re: My fiance is from back home…
yeh kab howa. you did not tell us.
Re: My fiance is from back home....
He has been inlove with me for like 6 years now.. :/
I didnt believe it until we talked recently...
I said in the beginning that he is obsessed with me.................................................................
Re: My fiance is from back home....
THATS WHY ITS BLIMMIN HARD hahahaha I dont feel the same way as he does... al the fam wants us to get married.... I dont wanna be with him but dont wanna break his heart eitherrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Re: My fiance is from back home....
Crazy as in.. obsessively in love with me.
Don't flatter yourself. It's probably just love for the British passport. Another thing you should add to the stereotype.
Re: My fiance is from back home....
Don't flatter yourself. It's probably just love for the British passport. Another thing you should add to the stereotype.
Errrr one thing is that he has liked me since we were kids........ and marriage got into his head with me when he was 14............ he doesnt wanna come here..... he goes if we get married its gonna be in pak and gonna live in pak. thats one thing for sure about him.
my own bhabi turned out to be a greedy little...... oh God.. another tail to a long story.
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Oh and in terms of 'flattering' myself. He is the FIRST guy I KNOW and have ever known about who actually even likes me. I dont think im a frckin model or something.
Re: My fiance is from back home....
mughalprincess: I dont want you to end your life with a teenager, jobless, and uneducated majnoo.
Re: My fiance is from back home....
mughalprincess: I dont want you to end your life with a teenager, jobless, and uneducated majnoo.
Thanks so dont I... I dont wanna be with him cos its gonna be hard.. but at the same time I dont wanna play with his heart.
Re: My fiance is from back home....
he doesnt wanna come here..... he goes if we get married its gonna be in pak and gonna live in pak. thats one thing for sure about him.
Well then it's about time you learn how to use a lota. Stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason.
Re: My fiance is from back home....
But I have made the decision now.. I'll stay cos I broke his heart once by saying no 4 years ago.......... now I said yes and he thinks I love him and everything... but i did it for his and my families happiness. At the end of the day I should be with someone who loves me right?