Re: My fiance is from back home....
Well then it's about time you learn how to use a lota. Stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason.
I use a lota. I'm Muslim.
Re: My fiance is from back home....
STA and ShahryarKhan,
Sonce you both already know the guy (paindu hai, immature hai),
why don't you both find her a mature shehri guy (just like yourself)?
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I'll be back in 20 minz... going to Pray.
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I dont think im a frckin model or something.
Your nick says otherwise.
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Your nick says otherwise.
Haha yeah not model.. princess. cos my dad calls me that thats why. I wish I was though.
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Thanks so dont I... I dont wanna be with him cos its gonna be hard.. but at the same time I dont wanna play with his heart.
be clear with your parents and let them know that you both are different and cant live entire life. your mom looks nice lady but she is also keeping you in the middle of situation where you cant take any good decision. I think, they dont have any suitable argument to keep you in this rishta. It looks more brotherly/sisterly love of your parents rather than the true and sincere effort for your match.
Re: My fiance is from back home....
be clear with your parents and let them know that you both are different and cant live entire life. your mom looks nice lady but she is also keeping you in the middle of situation where you cant take any good decision. I think, they dont have any suitable argument to keep you in this rishta. It looks more brotherly/sisterly love of your parents rather than the true and sincere effort for your match.
Innu patta i, listen to him.
Re: My fiance is from back home....
be clear with your parents and let them know that you both are different and cant live entire life. your mom looks nice lady but she is also keeping you in the middle of situation where you cant take any good decision. I think, they dont have any suitable argument to keep you in this rishta. It looks more brotherly/sisterly love of your parents rather than the true and sincere effort for your match.
YOU ARE AMAZING. Right on spot. it is their brotherly sisterly thing
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You dont even get sarcasm and you think you are more mature? geez
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Mujhe LondontoLahore 'yaad' araha hai... (not in the literal sense ofcourse)
I be leaving now.
Re: My fiance is from back home....
Talk to your parents mughalprincess9. I am sure they will listen to you.
Marriage is not something you should do until you are 100% sure about it. Engagement is a trial period which you can use to get to know each other and you can try to convince your parents that you couldn't find any connection with the guy and you want to get it over.
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I read about 1.5 pages and you sound just as immature as him. I know how you're reeling him now however the underlying fact still remains you're still young and on the same boat as him.
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Yeah emmm I didn't say im mature. Infact, I'm immature, I'm a child myself! THATS WHY I want someone mature, stable and thats not what he is. I need to grow up anyway.... but ofcourse I'm mature and responsible when needed.
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I think you have to be mature for marriage being immature is not an excuse. I think in your case you should try to delay marriage as long as possible.
Rather contradictory of you to state your position of matureness.
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.. but at the same time I dont wanna play with his heart.
Well you already did by saying yes before and now wanting to say no! however, that doesnt mean you should not say no because that will ruin his life 2.
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When you were 16 and he was 14?? 
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Errrr one thing is that he has liked me since we were kids........ and marriage got into his head with me when he was 14............ he doesnt wanna come here.....** he goes if we get married its gonna be in pak and gonna live in pak. thats one thing for sure about him. **
my own bhabi turned out to be a greedy little...... oh God.. another tail to a long story.
oh noes......living in pak?? thats like the biggest mistake you could ever make.......you can read @nadz123 threads......... you will have an idea what life is going to be like for you in future.......
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I know this is not something that many people consider, but the risks of a double first cousin marriage are high. Think of it, both of you have very similar genes as both set of your parents are siblings. Please get a blood test done if you are seriously thinking about going through with it.
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Lol, I went through almost the exact same dilemma...my husband is 3 years older and he's related to me from my dad's side. My Dad means the world to me, and when he suggested I marry this boy (now my hubby) I was devastated for a while - I was only 18! I'd been raised in a very liberal way regarding marriage (your choice, your time etc)...so when my dad said he'd be happy if I accepted this guy, I kind of just did it for him. I had the same reservations I guess, about guys from Pakistan. You're lucky that you're only engaged, I actually had my nikkah done but my husband stayed in Pakistan for a while. We didn't know each other at all, so we started talking on the phone/msn/Skype and honestly...I probably couldn't have found a better match for myself. I absolutely love him. He's absolutely perfect in every sense of the word. <3 I truly believe that our parents choose people who they know will be great for us...and I'm glad I listened to my Dad.
I won't encourage you to blindly go ahead and marry this guy, I know there are people who aren't as lucky as I got. I will say that before making any decision, you should give him a chance. Phone/MSN/Skype...get to know him, and if you still feel this way...go ahead and say no. Your parents won't be heartbroken, they know it's a decision about your life. You have to spend your life with your husband, not them.