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oi quas...apni ba*quas* band kar
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did anyone say it wasnt allowed? 
i know i nvr did.
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Tussi wade impuslive ho jee.. assi tay angel aankhon aali angelina Jolie wargi saadi pehn naal gallan karda aan tay tenu ki taqleef ai? :D
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Tay tu menu dassya nai..
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im not opposed to anyone else marrying more then one wife. I’ve mentioned that time and time again. Im not opposed to anything that Allah (SWT) has made permissible for us. For women that can handle it…more power to them. It takes a strong woman to allow another woman to enter her home and share her husband.
I am not that kind of woman. I dont like to share 
and yes I would be afraid that he may not treat us equally. Perhaps he will be more inclined to one wife and not the other. In my opinion a man that is in love with his wife ..he will love EVERYTHING about her…her flaws and all. If he loves her he shouldnt have to look at any other woman for satisfaction and if he does…just imagine how incomplete his wife will feel.
These example you give me about people being married to more then one wife arent credible. We dont know what really goes on in their homes. Only Allah (SWt) knows. You dont know if the wives are truly being treated equal. This is only based on what you see and what you hear…which doesnt count for much.
Why would a man want to marry more then one wife if it is not advisable to do so in Islam?
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wth...speak english or urdu!
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so basically r we allowed to or not? that is the question.
You are ALLOWED to, IF you can provide for them equally. I believe that also includes affection, not just materialistic things. I mean, if you're going to do a lot of kiss-kissy with one, you need to provide that to the other. I think it includes physical interactions at least.
So, you ask yourself. Can you be fair? If you FEAR you can't, then its best you stick to one.
I think most men, rationally if they think about it, will have their doubts. Hence, the proper muslim action is to not engage in polygamy, then.
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Sialkot is his justification for how many men can handle polygamy??
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quas....so realistically....how many wives do you think you will have in the future?
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Sialkot is one of the nicest towns in Pakistan.. maybe after Lahore and Faisalabad, it is the modern town in the nation. As you said above to Afridi, if one can treat all his wives equally, he is allowed to marry more than one- Trust me, if you can come with me to Pakistan I can show you how many men are married off happily to 3-4 wives and have kids with all of them. Physical relationship is an important aspect of the marriage and one should make sure that he is not ignoring of his wives sexually..
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Arrey pehley ek tu miley.. yaar aap log agar aisa attitude rakhoge tu kaisey baat banegi ;) I am a nice munda and available :)
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with your thinking, MOST girls would be scared to marry you 
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I never said I am gonna marry multiple woman.. my whole discussion started with my view that it is one of the permissible acts in Islam and is not a derogatory one- thats it! If it’s there in the religion and is an approved one, why is it looked down upon in this age when Arabs used to have multiple wives since ages and still practice the act even to this day? Many pure Islamists in Taleban regime had more than 2 wives.. You all are upset cuz it means you have to split your hubby? it does denigrate to a “Jaahil” act.. it will be there and knock you at some point in life whether you love your bf or not cuz times will change.. come on dear.. grow up!
On other note, if you see me in person, I am a normal, punjbai munda with glasses.. look shah rukh khan (the one with glasses) of baazigar.. but a lot gora 
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its not as simple as you make it out to be. the quran says u cant treat them equally...and if u cant treat them equally then only marry one. what does that mean?
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please tell us if we r allowed to or not
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^ We are- dont worry these girls think they have exclusive rights over their husband- when he can treat each case separately, there should not be any issue.
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Although it is allowed as stated in the Quran, I beleive the purpose of multiple wives was to take on women who are on their own without the ability to care for themselves or their children. This makes it a noble, selfless act on the part of both the husband and the initial wife.
In practice though, all I've seen with multiple marriage is guys who say well heck I'm allowed and cant keep it zipped. So they go get themselves more wives to satisfy their lust. An insult to the initial wife. Who cares about "equal treatment" of the wives when the whole thing happens because the guy cant control himself? Of COURSE the ladies will get angry over this issue because it doesnt happen (very often anyway) in the way that it was MEANT to.
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Right and all of us who don't come from Lahore, Faisalabad, or Sialkot are a bunch of trash bags, right?
Do I detect symptoms of punjabitis?
Mamaof3: Darn straight. But as you can see here, most guys are not concerned about the morals of polygamy. They're just concerned as to - Can I, or Can't I? I don't think they've figured out that they need to question themselves as to whether they can be fair or not. I think any sensible guy in this day and age will doubt his ability to be fair. Taking on one wife is darn expensive and these amateurs don't know it. Once wifey starts being an expense, and kids start being an expense, the thought of another wife just won't enter into their mind (unless they are a true pervert).
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quas=mulz? 