Multiple Wives...

So assuming that you marry a wealthy person with a good career, how many of you ladies would allow your husband’s to have a second wife? Now, we’re assuming that he will be able to treat all his wives equally as per the rule. (i.e. he’ll treat everyone equal financially, emotionally, etc etc).

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I'm fine with that. it's his right, he doesnt need permission of the first wife anyways.

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on a similar note, if a man has two wives, can he have a threesome? or does he need to do them separtely?

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No you are not allowed to even show foreplay in front of a third party, for example kissing.

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Its funny. Today I went to an Indian grocery store, and the owner had up a poster of Rama (Krishna, someone in their hindu theology, I really don't know) surrounded by a whole bunch of women who were his wives.

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yeah.

gross.

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Why gross? You don't mind having co-wives. Or is it just ok if a muslim guy does it, but not if a hindu does it?

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yeh but thats my point. It's not really a "third party", cuz its your own wife.

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Hypocrisy?

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^ Sara begum, what do you think about the initial question?

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1 wife is more then enough if u ask me:)

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Anil, what do you think about the multiple hindu wives?

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I'll answer your question, if you answer mine: WHY is it gross if a Hindu has multiple wives, but perfectly okay if a Muslim does? :)

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it has to be seprate acoording to islam

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Yeah but to her shes a third party :p

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Don't really have an opinion about it; All I know is that I wouldn't marry more then one gal. :)

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I didn't bring up that issue.

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Hindus are generally grosser.

Besides that, they do things following satan and their nafs, while muslims follow God.

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lol I am suprised

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Good so at least you're not a hypocrite when it comes to that.

If he married another woman w/o telling me i'd kill him. Or something. I dunno.