Re: Ladies!!!
Go for the master!... Enjoy your life! If you've found the right match, then do an engagement as well :)
Re: Ladies!!!
I am way too old for that lol in a way you ladies won't understand. Anyways yeh I have reached a verdict, by popular vote it is going to be Masters. I opened a thread to see which would win, Masters or Marriage and well you all have made valid pro points for Masters and that's what it is going to be.
Re: Ladies!!!
what are u too old for?
Re: Ladies!!!
Can't say here but anyways, thanks for the advice everyone.
Re: Ladies!!!
You are very welcome! You made a good choice in my opinion :) Best of luck to you on everything.
Yup cuz i don’t yet feel that need to settle down but always have wanted to get good education.
Re: Ladies!!!
^ Dubaiwali made an awesome choice! That way, she'll have more security for any problems that may (khuda na hasta) come up in a marriage or life in general. I know that money can't fix every problem, but at least KNOWING that you have the ability to support yourself is comforting. For women, who don't have the means.....if situations require it.....it can be really tough.
Marriage will happen when Allah wills it. Getting married early (according to desi standards) doesn't necessarily mean that you'd get a good spouse......or that you'd even be ready for it. There are examples of people who have gotten married a bit later.....when they're more sure of themselves.....and have found really compatible partners.
While working on your Masters.....you can still consider good rishtay.....and you can opt for an engagement.....and then marriage, when suitable. Everything will fall into place.
GO AISHA!!!!!! Wish you all the best and success!
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Thanks Aisha^
Oh and there is this other reason too why I want Masters before I get married again. All the gals who are marrying in to my khandan(memon side and punjabi side) have Masters degrees. My bhabhis you can say. I don’t want to be from the khandan and just have two bachelors degrees and two diplomas. Meri izzat ka sawal hai!!
Re: Ladies!!!
If you're eventually gonna work, then masters. If your just planning on getting married and being a house wife, and your husband can provide you with everything you need on his salary - why waste time money and effort on studying?
Re: Ladies!!!
Marriage . . . and tell them if they won't get you married then you'll keep on doing Masters as revenge . It works :p
If you're eventually gonna work, then masters. If your just planning on getting married and being a house wife, and your husband can provide you with everything you need on his salary - why waste time money and effort on studying?
Hmmmm......I don't consider it a waste. The global economy is strained.....people are being laid off.......employers are becoming more picky about who they should hire.........they want someone who stands out. So, having a higher degree can increase your chances. Conversely, yes..........some employers (not all) would choose to hire one with only a bachelor's degree to save money. But for those.....who really value the expertise a person can bring to the workplace.....they'd want someone who has that.
You don't know someone unless you start living with them. You meet a guy.....he's attractive.......he seems nice...........but when you start living with him........you find that you're stuck in a dysfunctional marriage......what if it's an abusive marriage?
Or what if your husband gets into an accident and becomes paralyzed. I've heard such stories.......SEEN such examples. Or what if hubby gets fired? The wife might need to start working. What if he divorces you? You're on your own now.
It reminds me of how this one girl.......once said that she wants to get married so that she'll have a "guardian." I didn't agree with her. If something happens to your "guardian".......of if your "guardian" leaves........what will you do? Do you have the ability to stand upon your own two feet? Life doesn't come with guarantees. And to rest your entire safety/security upon a "guardian"....to me....is scary. Rather than look for a "guardian".......one should look for a companion. Be secure in yourself.
Even a married friend of mine......whose husband is financially supporting her and is in no dire need of working............ALSO...........says that a woman can't go into a marriage just planning to be a housewife because life is so unpredictable. She may have to work. Unfortunately life doesn't always run according to our plans.
Re: Ladies!!!
Girls should go for Master of cooking, cleaning, laundry, and massage therapy first. :)
Girls should go for Master of cooking, cleaning, laundry, and massage therapy first. :)
And those same women......should then impart their mastery of cooking/cleaning/laundry/and massage therapy.........to their little boys.........who, after their OWN mastery....... can become responsible men..........and therefore better husbands.
Re: Ladies!!!
neither....revolt....find a job and enjoy life :)
And those same women......should then impart their mastery of cooking/cleaning/laundry/and massage therapy.........to their little boys.........who, after their OWN mastery....... can become responsible men..........and therefore better husbands.
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I forgot to add earlier,
"....so these girls can take care of their Master! " ;)
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I forgot to add earlier,
"....so these girls can take care of their real Master!" ;)
Allah is the REAL master. Tut tut tut.........khauf karo!
lol…I know
‘real’ as opposed to Master degree! 
I was playing with the word here.
Re: Ladies!!!
I agree with most people...A Masters is a better option.
Re: Ladies!!!
Don't do the masters if you plan on doing nothing with it because other people who want the seat probably do want to use it.
It depends on whether you want to work or not using that degree.
And depends on if the rishtaa is worth not going for the degree.
If you've got some college education, that's good enough for a housewife.
Re: Ladies!!!
An if you're worried about the economy, keep in mind that by the time you are done withthe babies, your masters may be worthless in the job market. So you need to know when you'll be working. Get the degree prior to getting the job.
You can get jobs with a bachelors degree.