Re: If you could be married to more than one guy at the same time..
aaah only if every man followed the teachings of the Quran most of the time. btw could you point out to me the page where threesomes were made halal in the Quran?
Re: If you could be married to more than one guy at the same time..
aaah only if every man followed the teachings of the Quran most of the time. btw could you point out to me the page where threesomes were made halal in the Quran?
Re: If you could be married to more than one guy at the same time..
can you provide detail where it is written ok for man to sleep four women at a time from well know scholar.
otherwise, your post is baseless.
i didnt say sleep with four women at the same time..that'd be a fivesome! i was saying one at a time. sorry for the confusion.
Re: If you could be married to more than one guy at the same time..
i didnt say sleep with four women at the same time..that'd be a fivesome! i was saying one at a time. sorry for the confusion.
if a man is nikkahfied with 4 ladies, then it is ok to sleep with one at a time.
i dont see any islamic prohibition as long as husband can fulfill the rights of each wife.
now the concept of threesomes is not supported by teaching of Islam.
Ibless khabees(satan) is the one who implanted this idea into human minds. :@:
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No. Monogamy is necessary for emotional clarity.
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This one? It says some other things as well. ![]()
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What if the second guy was Johnny Depp? would you do it then ;)
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He’s not even muslim. ![]()
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the people who question (if it occurs to them) why men are allowed 4 marriages and women are not may have lost their faith in the Providence but maybe they can answer then why only women can procreate. These distinctions are made by Allah. And we accept them as they are.
Re: If you could be married to more than one guy at the same time..
^Islam says there is no compulsion in religion. You are allowed to question and do your own research. That being said, multiple wives were allowed for a reason and that reason is no longer relevant any longer hence the need for multiple wives can no longer be justified.
Re: If you could be married to more than one guy at the same time..
wow hold your horses right there
whatever you said it completely incorrect and is a complete misinterpretation of Islamic law and teaching at multiple levels
there is no such ruling that says men can only marry up to four women during war and post war times. If you look at Islam as a functioning and look at all sorts of reasons and justifications then you realize there all the things that are allowed and others disallowed because of some reason. Prophet pbuh did not give any reason to any ruling by Allah swt what he gave is the wisdom the word reason must not be associated with rulings of Allah swt because he does not need a reason to make us to such and such. The concept of reason comes in play when we try to explain something that doesnt quite fit our understanding.
There were no rulings in Islam by the end of its completion where any of them were not applicable for people to come.
By you saying not applicable because no reason anymore means that Islam was left incomplete, the prophet pbuh did not tell us what to do in our time and so forth.
^Islam says there is no compulsion in religion. You are allowed to question and do your own research. That being said, multiple wives were allowed for a reason and that reason is no longer relevant any longer hence the need for multiple wives can no longer be justified.
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Good points Shahreyar Khan but the thing is i doubt 99% of the people who do go for 2nd or 3rd/4th marriages do so for the right reasons and even if the reason may be right, the don't end up fulfilling the responsibilities of having multiple wives at the same time. It's not a kids game to manage a single wife and the responsibilities only doubled/triple up with more wives and most men fail to fulfill them.
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Oh, God. Why can't we ever have a discussion without bringing religion into it constantly? .
Great question. Irony is that you started it with the words Oh God.
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:)
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Islam is complete religion, then how come one can separate it from daily life. :@:
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Oh, God. Why can't we ever have a discussion without bringing religion into it constantly? Is that all that defines us (I'm sure many will say yes) but in theory, we should be able to have an exchange of opinion or discussion without having to bring religion into it. The OP asked a random question, inserted the possibility of it being allowed in Islam for those that base their opinion off of it out of courtesy. It doesn't mean every person who has the opposite view has to get beat with the Religion Cane. Also because not everyone on here is a Muslim. Just sayin'.
Very well said.
If someone asks a hypothetical question instead of giving a speech about how their post is haram or halal just answer the question. If we keep on going by haram or halal half the posts or threads wouldn't work.
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I am glad people bring in religion, because it shows that they have respect for religion and hayaa left. Even if the question is hypothetical.
Some people’s id is out of control anyways, imagine agar usko aur ziadah khul mil gayee tau kaisi kaisi fantasies parhne ko mileiNgi ![]()
(yeah yeah, holier than thou, hypocrite, save me the words… )
Re: If you could be married to more than one guy at the same time..
^Islam says there is no compulsion in religion. You are allowed to question and do your own research. That being said, multiple wives were allowed for a reason and that reason is no longer relevant any longer hence the need for multiple wives can no longer be justified.
There is no compulsion on GS too. If you dont like post of people bringing Islam into discussion, you can easily skip those posts. Fair deal? :)
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Uh, that wasn't the point. Sigh.
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Uh, that wasn't the point. Sigh.
seems like you were irked because guppies bring religion in all simple simple random random questions. So I suggested the solution.
PS: If you dont like the solution, skip my solution post too :)
Re: If you could be married to more than one guy at the same time..
^Islam says there is no compulsion in religion. You are allowed to question and do your own research. That being said, multiple wives were allowed for a reason and that reason is no longer relevant any longer hence the need for multiple wives can no longer be justified.
I would politely disagree M. "our own research" can make us astray. therefore what must we ask Allah from, is the guidance to the right path, even before exercising this right of research and all that, because a hair's breadth can turn you from momin to kafir. Again, Kufr is nothing but NEGATION. whatever commands, the dos and donts have been mentioned in Quran, and that in Ahadeeth, are the final word. Because I dont believe the Rasool Ullah would have said anything from himself. So there isnt nor should be any question regarding this point isnt validate anymore so nullifies itself and all that.