If an unmarried girl begs you to marry her....

would you marry her?

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Been there. Done that. Not worth it. Men lose respect for you pretty fast.

I hate playing mind games though. If I like a guy , why CANT I propose??

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y wld a gurl do tht? if a guy cnt recognize a gem hes not worth it :snooty: n if the gurl isnt a gem then he anyways wont marry u so dunt bother begging!

weird question!

Re: If an unmarried girl begs you to marry her…

Um. Maybe because your eggs are rotting inside you and you have a limited time before you risk down syndrome and uh maybe because you are getting into your 30’s and you need to start having some sex already :mad:

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So it's the pride that won't let you beg a man you're in love with to marry you?

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well i am more likely to marry an unmarried girl than a married one. All this red-tape and contractual stuff. You know how it is.

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My question was for the male posters ......but never mind. lol

hallalujah!!!

But still no.

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**am i the first male to reply in this thread? ok, here are my TWO cents:

i'm a soft hearted man. if i know someone well enuf who is good for me i wud've already proposed, but if she is some-one i do NOT know enuf and her circumstances warrant me to do that sacrifice i'll NOT hesitate doing that. i'll consider that as a will of Allah...iA**

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why would you ever beg someone to marry you:smack:



talk about self respect!!

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Yeah if a girl begged me to marry her and I did not want too? Nope. If I was considering a long term future with her and she wanted to get married asap, I would whatever humanly possible to make sure she is happy.

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I think women should never propose unless they know the answer will be a definite yes.

talk about heartbreak if the guy turns around and says 'I was only taking you for a ride'....

PUNCH.

Re: If an unmarried girl begs you to marry her....

never beg..

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Make this Question an intresting one .. similar to someone asked me ..

Would you marry a gurl who is unmarried .. but has no one else to get married to .. and her life is total disaster .. that if you dunt marry her . she d rather commit suicide .. and your already married yourself .. so would you marry her to stop her from doing suicide ?

but to Hareems Questions ... id look at her sittuation .. why wud she wana marry me..

despration
money
doesnt knw what to do with her life ..
shes being forced

could be many reasons ..

but if i wasnt married ..and she had a genuine reason to get married .. then i d say yes ..why not .. make someone happy atleast

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When guys can, why cant girls? they demand equal rights in everything...why step back here? If you like someone go ahead, beg !

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provided If I dont love/committed to someone else and this girl only begging me cause she love me not because of anything else.. i shouldnt have problem in accepting that.

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just FYI for GS girls:

I have proven track record to consider all types of begging favorably...so dont wait, go ahead ... my lines oops i mean pm is open :D

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if a girl asks me to marry her, i will do it right there and then, it has nothing to do with losing respect or being desperate or anything, for me it is a huge step for a girl to go up to a guy and propose cuz majority of the girls are anticipating other way, that they will wait till the guy makes a move, If a girl has the courage to do that i am confident she will be an excellent life partner :k:

I met this acquaintance and we were sharing guy/girl rishta/relationship stories and he had a story on this scenario.

He and his ex were together for almost 3 years and she wanted marriage - he wasn't ready and kept putting her off. Finally, she gave him an ultimatum marry me or I walk (there were a lot of tears, a lot of drama and to hear him say it she was begging). Anyhow, he said no - she walked and turned around and married a rishta her parents arranged for her within 4 months. Two months later she was pregnant.

On one hand you'd think she lost face because she was begging him to make the final committment - but at the end of the day he came out the loser since he has yet to get over it - didn't recognize her for the gem she was and now no other girl will measure up...

CHACHA jee aap kee already shadi nahi huee wee ? :konfused:

tauba tauba, bhaabi jee ko calling :nono: