Re: If an unmarried girl begs you to marry her....
She can beg me as long as she wants to but if I'm NOT interested in her, If I can NOT see my future with her, then I won't budge no matter what and perhaps change my number too. I don't like such harassment or headaches.
Yes he is. He’s an I-banker - pretty full of himself :halo:
But he got his comeuppance when she didn’t let the grass grow under her feet before turning around and marrying someone else and having a kid with him.
Now the dude walks around like Devdas and will tell anyone that she shouldn’t have given him an ultimatum, should’ve been more understanding of where he was in his life and should have waited for him
Do you believe in saying no to someone to ensure a better life for the both of you?
I did that back in the day.
If you love someone then the better life is the one where the two of you are together. Therefore the reason you are not marrying them is because you do not love them (enough). < reasons for which may vary.
I met this acquaintance and we were sharing guy/girl rishta/relationship stories and he had a story on this scenario.
He and his ex were together for almost 3 years and she wanted marriage - he wasn't ready and kept putting her off. Finally, she gave him an ultimatum marry me or I walk (there were a lot of tears, a lot of drama and to hear him say it she was begging). Anyhow, he said no - she walked and turned around and married a rishta her parents arranged for her within 4 months. Two months later she was pregnant.
On one hand you'd think she lost face because she was begging him to make the final committment - but at the end of the day he came out the loser since he has yet to get over it - didn't recognize her for the gem she was and now no other girl will measure up...
She kept face because she lived up to her ultimatum. He fell in love when she left him
because we all know that only unfulfilled love is truly romantic.
If you love someone then the better life is the one where the two of you are together. Therefore the reason you are not marrying them is because you do not love them (enough). < reasons for which may vary.
Re: If an unmarried girl begs you to marry her....
begging is no good.....cuz then u have to constantly beg the guy for everything in your life.
(i think) beg the guy ONLY, when you want to get rid of him. because you know that he is not sincere or at least you are not his priority. he wants to waste your time as he wants to be with you, but he will not marry you.
ironic part is majority girls fall for players, flirts, who are very into mind games. so above mentioned part is to be applied if you fall for any such one.
Why would you be with someone for 3 years, subject your gf to begging for your hand, an then still refuse?
What a loser. Why was he with her for so long in the first place?
Pig.
that reminds me - all Pigs have same trait! No one is related yet the trait is passed on like DNA!!!!!
okay Pig trait: Be with the girl for long time - and still refuse to marry... All these pigs! Where do they learn these type of lessons? Is there a PIG Guru? A Pig's guide to cheat the girl of her precious time and let it pass by - without even a proposal in the end? Why in the end these pigs still get to keep a virgin?