Physical Involvement

[pak2015]

Re: Physical Involvement

@Reha

My MIL never pried into my past…she never once asked my parents a single thing even before we married. She knew I was divorced and husband and I were getting to know each other.

Its cheap…there’s no way one can approach this topic without looking cheap.

Your situation is a bit different and doesn’t apply to people who have never been previously married. But even then, you obviously had a past being divorced which I’m sure you voluntarily disclosed to serious prospects. Clearly a previously married person has a past by definition so there was absolutely no reason to discuss details of that past by your husband or MIL. Your husband and MIL were aware you were divorced when they were considering you right? Hence they knew that you had a past and accepted it–they just dont know the details which don’t need to be discussed but they do know you had a past.

I don’t think any reasonable person wants to know exact play by play details of someone’s past, but just being aware whether someone had a past or not when you don’t know the person but is being considered a serious prospect is not a big deal. No need to go into exact details.