I am...mad?

fghd · March 31, 2008, 5:30pm

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errr.... OK?

lol sara u r mean :D

aminch · March 31, 2008, 5:30pm

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Um if I stay with him it definitely will turn into that. And I so do not wanna be the wife with low self esteem God forbid Allah na kare

fghd · March 31, 2008, 5:32pm

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I guess you love urself more than him. You should go back and edit your firt post b4 it gets nasty in this thread. You started off saying something else and now you r truely shwoing ur colors [which i cant say are ur true colors since idont know you].

Give me your non-bf's number so I can call him and congratulate for being honest. You dont find guys like that nowadays.

aminch · March 31, 2008, 5:33pm

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Lets just call him a close friend who has feelings for me. If even that LOL

Sara516 · March 31, 2008, 5:33pm

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taking cues from saieen. :D

fghd · March 31, 2008, 5:33pm

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and you don’t?

Sara: progressing and I am loving it :k:

Sara516 · March 31, 2008, 5:36pm

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i got the chai (hot chocolate) now if only i cud get the fancy urdu too. :hinna:

arshad5 · March 31, 2008, 5:42pm

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Don't be mean EMM.

fghd · March 31, 2008, 5:46pm

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Im playing devil advocate's role here.

aminch · March 31, 2008, 5:46pm

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Okay for people who CARE. That excludes many of the above. Should I talk to him..again, just move on or live with it?

arshad5 · March 31, 2008, 5:50pm

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You switching from medical to law now?

arshad5 · March 31, 2008, 5:53pm

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Only you can tell if he still genuinely loves you, and if you can live with him. Talk to him. Know what you want out of the realtionship and if he can offer you want you need.

fghd · March 31, 2008, 5:56pm

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Try to talk to him calmly. VERY CALMLY, since you wont let go off of this issue. If he means to you even a little bit genuinely then talk to him. If he still dont get you then it could mean 2 things:

Either he really is sick of you
He must be a jerk.

yourfriend · March 31, 2008, 5:57pm

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no... u should bring him over here and let shay and sgc to deal with him

aminch · March 31, 2008, 5:57pm

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Why do you think he would be sick of me? I'm tha nicest person ever!

I need advice from some real women. Somegroovychick and shay

Femme_Fatale · March 31, 2008, 5:58pm

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somegroovychick:

^ well yes, of course its getting hurt! why wouldn't it?

thats a pretty mean comment to make, especially coming from someone who wants to marry you. being honest is one thing, but to the point of hurting someone's feelings and throwing them into this self-doubt is ridiculous. its not like he doesn't know her well enough to know exactly how she'd respond to his comments.

if my husband had said, well i don't really think you're that pretty, i'd ask him why he was with me. yes, we'd all love to think its solely about feelings and emotions and intelligence, etc. and it is those things too, but if you love someone and you look at them, you definitely don't think, "hrm... don't have pick of the bunch here, lookswise". biologically, we're all tuned into choosing mates that we can breed with and physical features do form a part of that attraction.

for him to say that to her sounds really weird, frankly... is he trying to test you to see what he can get away with? if you'll still marry him after? is he trying to tell you to shove off but doesn't have the guts to specify that? is he just stupid and thinks its actually a good thing to be this honest? whatever the reason, his comment was mean and uncalled for. how would he feel if she told him she loved him but really, he isn't the sharpest knife in the drawer?

SGC I am not saying that he is justified to say whatever he did but if someone is too full of themselves you can only take it for so long before you get sick of their self-obsession. Plus, like in this case, if her behaviour is bringing out the worst in the her guy and making him say bitter stuff to her its probably best to start with re-evaluating herself first. And if thats not where the fault is then I don;t see much point in being with someone who says things to spite you and make u feel lesser.

fghd · March 31, 2008, 6:01pm

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sigh

Im outta this thread.

aminas · March 31, 2008, 6:10pm

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Lol, you really need to get ova yourself

Can we see your and the guy’s pic to get to the conclusion tht who is better than who

Ansoon · March 31, 2008, 6:13pm

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^ i agree with aminas.. lets decide here and now forever who is the prettiest of all..

Ira · March 31, 2008, 6:13pm

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For some reason i feel we dont have the whole story here.