SGC I am not saying that he is justified to say whatever he did but if someone is too full of themselves you can only take it for so long before you get sick of their self-obsession. Plus, like in this case, if her behaviour is bringing out the worst in the her guy and making him say bitter stuff to her its probably best to start with re-evaluating herself first. And if thats not where the fault is then I don;t see much point in being with someone who says things to spite you and make u feel lesser.
Excuse me? First of all. There is nothing wrong with my behavior, and he said it matter of factly. I dont THINK he said it to hurt my feelings, but I could be wrong. And I am not self obsessed, even if I am..a little self obsession never hurt anyone. Why is everyone assuming I'm making him say these things to me? This was the first time we ever talked about this, the first time I found out he felt this way.
Okay this is what happened. We were talking generally and ok stupid subject (I KNOW)...and first time we've discussed it. So I said, so why me, you never told me. And he goes, well its not because ur prettier if thats what you're thinking. And I said, well that isnt what I meant but...(im thinking in my head wat an a*s). I didnt say anything but basically thats how it started.
Excuse me? First of all. There is nothing wrong with my behavior, and he said it matter of factly. I dont THINK he said it to hurt my feelings, but I could be wrong. And I am not self obsessed, even if I am..a little self obsession never hurt anyone. Why is everyone assuming I'm making him say these things to me? This was the first time we ever talked about this, the first time I found out he felt this way.
Okay this is what happened. We were talking generally and ok stupid subject (I KNOW)...and first time we've discussed it. So I said, so why me, you never told me. And he goes, well its not because ur prettier if thats what you're thinking. And I said, well that isnt what I meant but...(im thinking in my head wat an a*s). I didnt say anything but basically thats how it started.
Good idea , :biggthumbeven Aminach can open a Poll thread to get the votes on the beauty scale from 1 to 10 to prove to this guy that she was right all along or if there are more votes for the guy then it will give her the dose of reality. No ?
^ nope only Im the Evil one. It even says in my nick. Don't be scared - go ahead post ur pic. I am in a mood of admiring my Allah's beautiful creature today.
I, for one, wouldn't be too happy if my hubby to be told that I am not that pretty because Physical attraction is a huge thing aswell. But as you said, this is the first time you guys were talking about this, and he said what he said. Maybe what he was trying to say was that he loves for who you are ...not just for your looks and it didn't exactly come out the way he wanted it to. hm
I asked you the questions to avoid making assumptions about ur situation. Based on ur account of details I still don’t see what could have prompted him to say something like ‘get over yourself’! So in the worst case scenario if he is saying all this mean stuff to you with no reason/instigation and will only backtrack and not take responsibility of his words do you really want to be with him? Plus you have a bunch of other guys saying you ar gorgeous and I’m assuming they are available and willing to be with you, then honestly why are you wasting your time on him? and he isn’t even intelligent I say you run.
I cant show you his. He's making me feel so damn insecure. Yea I say i drop it...but then I talk to him..and he sounds sad..and I give in. Im too nice. You can see femme
I say you run.
