Forbidden Fruit - Have you indulged?

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whom do you lust after then?

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Koi bhi nahi :nono: It’s not my cup of tea :chai:

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perhaps you need to reconsider your sexual orientation then

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Not a bad idea. But i would have known by know if something was wrong with me :D.

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Zareen, it depends upon a person's definition of attraction and lust. For some...the word "lust" is used in a more lax way and is synonymous with attraction. For others...they associate "lust" with sexual feelings...which is maybe how you see it. People's perceptions vary.

You may find Salman Khan very very attractive....you might have fantasies of having a cup of chai with him...or being opposite him in a movie...or even of marrying him. And some might see that as lusting after him.

We're all human....and the way I see it....Allah created feelings of attraction/lust within us just as He created anger, jealousy, etc. They're natural...the important thing is to exercise them within the limits Allah has set. But I don't see anything wrong in admitting it. I've lusted after Aamir Khan for a long time...now I find him annoying, lol.

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:omg:

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^ This! But this is not lusting after someone plssss give me a break :smack:.

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Sure. Chill. Like I said before…“lust/ing” means different things to people. You don’t see your fantasies as such…that’s fine. But you ARE attracted to him…at least admit to that much cuz you had said earlier that you’ve never been attracted to forbidden things. And Salman Khan..though he is Muslim…may be considered “forbidden” by your family and when it comes to your beliefs.

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i think forbidden fruit would be more about someone who you would know personally.

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I disagree. Not necessarily. Forbidden fruit would be someone whom you KNOW is "unacceptable" because they conflict with your beliefs/lifestyle/etc......and you don't always have to "know" them on a personal level in order for them to be forbidden. Let's say you're Muslim...and you see this very attractive non-Muslim colleage. You can tell just by that person's name and maybe other visibile indicators that they're not Muslim........so that person becomes "forbidden" to you.....even though you never got to know them on a more personal/intimate level.

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**I AM ATTRACTED TO SALMAN KHAN!!!

**khush?

I think if there is anything at all that im popular for lol it is for my admiration for this guy n there is just no way i have ever even tried to hide that. I am not apologetic about my likes at all. And no i wouldn’t call him forbidden infact it would be awesome to find a guy like him to marry :k:.

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yes but what i was trying to say was....like that non-muslim colleague....they are still within your reach than a celebrity with whom you have near zero chances to be with.

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actually you are not the only one on GS popular for SK. There was another guppan on GS head over heels over SK…but she doesn’t come on anymore. You should meet her :k:

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More power to you then! :k:

Although…if you think it would be awesome to find a guy “like” him to marry…that’s essentially saying that you approve of the idea of marrying Salman Khan…if (hypothetically speaking) it were to happen to you. Now…we all know that “marrying someone/marriage” consists of more than just having a cup of chai with the person. One has to have intense feelings of attraction toward someone to consider them for an intimate relationship as marriage. So…with that said…is it possible that you subconsciously feel “lust”?

I kid…I kid. Just messin with your head. Fine baba…attraction it is. :stuck_out_tongue:

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Forbidden fruit is some one within your reach but you shouldn't have.

the term comes from the whole Adam and the forbidden fruit - within reach but sinful to have.

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No believe me it’s definately not MY head that you are messing with ;).

I said “someone like him”, i DID NOT say HIM :slight_smile: There IS a difference :).

If i felt lust for Salman Khan or anybody at all WHY would i hide it especially at a forum of all the places :smiley: LOL.

AND i also don’t agree with you that one must have intense feelings of attraction towards somone to consider them for marriage. Sometimes you just see some good traits in some people and wish you can marry someone like them, doesn’t mean you wanna jump in bed with them :nono:.

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lol…yep. Salman Khan is more like a sour grape. :cb:

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this thread takes me back an year. I indulged and how I loved it.

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I prefer non-forbidden fruit! :p

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how boring!