Re: strange relationship
maher, if i was u i wouldnt worry about it to much...me and my fiance are the same except im the one that talks a lot, i found it so funny wen i read ur post and made me feel bad bcos im EXACTLY the same with him, i bug him soo much, ask him so many fazool questions, likes dislikes whereas hes so quiet- it does my head in! we used to argue about it allll the time, like i would go through how my day was- tell him every little detail and wen id ask him how his day was he would say 'it was ok..usual' it used to frustrate me soo much! so i started going quiet and would act like him- he noticed and sed that he didnt like it wen i didnt talk a lot lol which was nice! but he also added that if u notice most couples are like that- opposites as the other person makes up for what you dont have- so as a package u have everything...sounded really filmy wen he sed it but wen i thought about it and looked at other couples i found it to be really true, so now i talk like a radio and he listens and alhamdulilah we dont argue about it nemore...i felt really bad wen he sed 'u shud accept me for who and how i am and not try to change me'- as that wsnt my intention at all, i jus love to no everything about him, i think its a sign of love (yuck) and it makes life more fun- imagine if u ended up with someone who was quiet aswel??
my advice to u wud b stay how u r, dont change, but yes do make a effort, marriage is about compromise- if u no sumthing little wud make him happy e.g. if u shared ur feelings or opinions about sumthing, then do it, trust me ul b happy but at the same time if u feel uncomfortable with his continuous questions then tell him nicely, im sure he will totally understand.
sorry for waffling on! but seriously dont stress about it x x