Re: I am...mad?
Aww that is rite...b4 i was gonna reply with something different but i think i agree with you. However i can also feel why aminch is probably feeling like that. It's a tough situation because at one side you are being hurt but on the other side you ateast know he is honest with you and admire you and chose you for your inner qualities which are gonna stay with you forever and not for your outer beauty which is gonna fade one day. It's really how you see it and how you wanna interpret it. It must be hard though esp because nobody wants to be told that they are beautiful for their love but would u rather have him lie to you?.
Also, honestly as much as i feel for you and understand that you are hurt i dont think you really love him either. Because if this comment is making you think of ending your relationship with him than that probably tells that your relationship with him is not that strong in the first place.
I agree whole heartedly with you. I will add more to it. I have seen with my own eyes. A very pretty girl I knew and admired her beauty got married .Within months of her marriage. She developed some thyroid related disease she got so ugly and fat that I was not able to recognize her. Her husband is very handsome guy himself. But did that end their relationship ? No. They still are married have kids and are living happily after. And by the way it was an arranged marriage not a love marriage.
The point being that the real beauty which counts is inner beauty , beauty of character. The outer beauty can turn into ugliness due to an an accident in minutes or due to an illness over a short period of time.
This poor fellow is telling the truth and his real feeling has beauty of character , he is not a fool and should be given a break.