I don’t understand his ideas either. Men think of every girl in a sexual way? That’s kind of hypersexual. I don’t even think that is biologically normal.
**Oh my gosh yes u r so ryt it wud irratate the hell out of me if he was a real lazy bum bt then i wud never pick such a man…
i like active guys…even when tired..theres no need to be a slob…if hes ill thts different…
hmmm but its nice to be able to fetch an bring each other stuff…an giving paani is savab so tht 1 i dont mind…but i guess not everytime i aint no1z skivvy!! lol id certainly expect him to bring me paani too an make me chai!! lOl
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Man making chai for his lady…
I wonder what the bhangra boys think of that?
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I can and will make coffee tea and green tea.
Specially if she is “appreciative”.
If she is like really really appreciative on weekends:wub:, next morning I would make her breakfast too, in the bed.
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You men just can’t divorce “sex” from the equation at all, can you?
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romance kehty heen shadi ky baad
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God my brain. Some tie Jimmy to cafe and leave him there. He “floods” more than a 15 year guppan who just found out what the internet it.
Why we come back? Simple. Regret or to get us some. Basically it is a need for us to feel better and we know you shall provide it. Also because it could be entertaining.
The real reason? Never. If a guy didn’t tell you in the first place, he will never tell you.
No more so than women. The problem with this “lazy situation” is that women say something and the expect it to be done right away. Taking out the trash is low on our priority. The game on the TV is high on the priority. Women confuse their desires as what men consider important. Basically its a form where the man has to do what the woman wants at the time she wants or he is lazy.
Basically its the guy telling you, shut it. I got better stuff to do and I will do it later.
If the guy has the chance. He wants to take the girl home.
Basically you say you are spoiled and you are upset your hubby doesn’t spoil you even before you married him. Am I the only one that sees the problem in this? You are expecting too much when you have given nothing to get this attention.
What are you supposed to do? Nothing. He will eventually come around.
Whatever makes you look sexy. Some women can really knock you out of your socks with just a bob cut. Men don’t care unless it has some oomph.
Because that is what we have seen in our families. That is what society dictates and because we work the long hours and do all the rest of the work. Also if you have issues with cooking food, he should have no need to buy food for the both of you when he eats.
But at that stage you aren’t in a marriage. Might as well get him a girlfriend. Marriage is about compromise and building a life together something most desi women do not get.
Men will do whatever is needed to get into your pants. The change is merely a deception to get you in bed. Then its back to our old ways. Why do you think women complain about men. As the reality goes “Women complain their husband is not the man they married after they spend 20 years changing him.”
Cupcake you should know better. There is no black or white in such relations. Not everything is sexual either. My sister is my blood. Nobody will ever reach that level. Not anybody. What you get is a varying level of grey in between. Where you consider them asexual beings. Its about how you are brought up. Female cousins are not seen as women. They lack gender. While nearly every woman on the street must be checked out.
To add to what our dear PCG and you have stated cupcake, men do not see everything in a sexual manner. We however do check you out and appreciate Allah’s natural talent at producing works of art. He also has his bad days.
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i thought i was helping 
So she has to be appreciative in order for you to make her breakfast.
So what do you have to be in order for her to make you breakfast and lunch and dinner and snacks etc etc???
don’t be smart and say “husband”.
aren’t you smart.
See if I wake up happy I am going to sing and do things for her.
do you know how to make kashmiri chai…that pink one? if you do will you post the recipe.
And y did u ignore the sentence in the middle?
Keameeab shadi ka pehla rule, pretend you are listening when you are not.
my lil bro was wizz at it. Me have no idea.
I make THE BEST cappuccino in whole world. Would that do for you 
What I’ve noticed from a lot of the guys here is that you would prefer that your significant other be a stay-at-home wife/mother and that you bring home the bacon (halal, turkey bacon of course). Then why don’t you marry them young, straight out of highschool - why should the girls bother to go on for post secondary education?
So I guess women have the same right to appreciate Allah’s natural talent when they check out the attributes on the tight end as they serve drinks and chips to their SO as he’s watching the Sunday afternoon game…
lay…its all about getting that pink tea color 
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ppl learn new things too. men change 
Nope. I prefer a wife who would work. Now the question is why is cooking such a big issue? I cook for myself 99% of the time in life. Why should it be such a major issue?
Yup. By all means enjoy.