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Men change but never learn.

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oh man… I always believed in Rakhi Bandhan but CM and Jaanwar just brought me back to light. :hinna:

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Amazing isn't it that I have been wearing one since 1999? :D

Heavenly voices of Rafi and Lata
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what am i suppose to do then?? :(

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how guys actually learn from their dad's behaviour and wont treat their children the same way as once they were treated as? ie. if their dad was abusive chances are they will also absorb the same trait.

what a role any dad plays plays in ones life?

Strength & Weakness
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Do you guys really hate it or think low of a woman who initiates contact?

One piece
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its said that guys who are close to their father are less likely to screw up their life.

My dad is my role model :hugz:

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no one hat contact with a girl, but yeah girls who go after guy should not be surprised when guys use them and lose them.

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  1. Father's role: That is a question that can only be answered by each individual as each one has a different relationship with their father.

  2. Contact first = self confidence. Self confidence is an attractive trait as long as it isn't mixed in with bossy, demanding and dominating.

Home made nihari masala
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Why is it hard for men to express emotions and say “I love you” once in a while (I’m talking about after marriage)?

P.S. My man cooks :smiley: We do it equally, so no cooking issues here. Its just not taking out the trash part that I HATE, I have to do it in the morning when I’m leaving for work, even after reminding him 10 times that “honey its trash day, please dont forget to take it out”.

So back to my question… Why oh why are you guys so lazy about taking out the trash :mad2:

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Umm....Fruity-pie,

Refer to bold #1: We ain't talkin about your immediate sister here...then one you share parents/or parent with. We're talking about more distant.....sisters. Surely, we think that many of you men are ABOVE that.

Refer to bold # 2: The word "assexual" means A) having no sex organs or being independent of sexual processes.......or............B) being free from or unaffected by sexuality.

Now it's perfectly jayaz/legititmate according to Islam to marry your cousin. However.........even if you're not inclined towards that............or even if the female cousin has failed to meet your standards of beauty..................most of them are sexual beings with the appropriate necessary organs........and are not free from sexuality or sexual feelings (even if that doesn't include YOU). You could say that YOU or some men might not be sexually attracted to this particular group of women....................but it's unreasonable to lable your female cousins as "asexual."

Female cousins are not seen as women? Yikes. Why are they treated as such then? And what about those men who do have a thing for a cousin and end up marrying one? You better hurry and warn them...........they may not be aware that they've married a being that is not a female or a woman. Once again............they're still women.......even if you're not attracted to them. They just may not be seen in a romantic/sexual sense by ALL men. To so boldly say that "theyr'e not seen as women"....is unreasonable.

Fruit cake......you've gone a bit nutty, it seems. Oh....silly me......fruit cake often contains nuts, :p

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wait wait, the same Jaanwar who found JS hawt?

Oooo you go girl! ;)

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Whereis jaanwar? I thought he was also to answer questions?

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I hate going back to the same issue that's raised in practically every thread - but if she's working exactly as much as you do (same hours and level of professional responsibilty) - then shouldn't you share to the extent possible household chores and childcare and get your own sammich? Or is a guy's expectation that she works but at a less stressful job than his, with easier work hours so she can look after hearth, home, kids and herself and her biggest baby, her husband?

I can and I will :D

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:omg: That is soooo true… the biggest babies are our husbands :stuck_out_tongue:

Jahaiz
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Agree with Sehrysh. Why is cooking such a big issue...........for some men? It's great that you cook for yourself 99% of the time. The issue here is not....cooking. It's more about sharing responsibiliities. If your wife works....it will not kill you to help her out with the cooking. Even if your wife didn't work.....there could be days that she's ill or something comes up and she can't cook....or perhaps just got lazy (it happens to the best of us)..........and you could help her out.

I get that you're imparting your "wisdom" about men to us clueless sexual and "asexual" women. But...........from an Islamic perspective.......the Prophet SAWS was a man........and did his chores around the house......and some of those chores (such as mending clothes) are considered "feminine" by society. But when such an example is put forth..........it's brushed off with excuses and notions about gender roles created by desi society.

Reminds me of some aunties who so proudly tells others that their sons don't even get a glass of water for themselves because the DAUGHTER does/fetches everything.

Is this friendship illegal
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  1. Why does some boys think that its okey to say that models/actresses are so hot...but they cant say the same to their gf/wife/fiance ?????

  2. does he really love you if he cant leave his female friends for you?

  3. what does it mean when men wants you to cover up totally, but khud nangi lakriyan dekhna chhate hain????..wants to watch dancing women on Tv but doesnt allow you to dance?(even if there isnt anyone there, except him)

  4. what does it mean when a man has been with u for 3 years but never showed that he wants s**..not talked abt anything even close to it.....isnt that strange? :O

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Ok, that's just crazy.

Karachi
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^ NOW.........THAT is what CM (should be correctly referring to as).......as "asexual"??????

:p

But other possibilities may also include that the guy is not attracted to his wife (infidelity.....or just isn't attracted)......has some psychological issues about sex.........the marriage is strained...........low libido...........stress about other things................prefers men to women.

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Let's not complicate it. It means one of two things:

  1. He's gay.

  2. He's cheating on you.

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