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i just stay quiet .....coz i don wana fight evev its his mistake...but when ever there is it goes for days.
sometimes? yeah, most of the time :nono:
I mean what kind of crap is “he/she must be thinking this while doing this…” 
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I dislike larae jagre yaro ... I really do not like them ...
Whatever starts them off I know neither one of us really wants them, but sometimes they will be caused by the following reasons:
I will say something to her as if I am her Saas - that is enough.
My mum says anything to her and she wants to get it off her chest so she talks to me about it, but if I don't give her attention then she will flip.
If the kids have damaged anything and I get picky with her for allowing that to happen, that is enough.
Mostly when either of us are down we support each other except when I am ill she gets angry at me for being ill, because I want tars and khidmat that she does not want to give.
How do you cope with the fight? When I turn away or he steps out of the room. Read Ayat ul Kursi. It does wonders & then those three times I was the one who went back to him thinking shaitan is behind all this so lets finish it. Of course I never tell him about the whole thinking who is behind this fight :@:
Who starts it? Both have been the culprits.
who ends? I do.
does one apologize? Both do.
Normal fight is when you have a disagreement over something minor. We rarely have those. MashaAllah! They are kind of essential for a healthy relationship though.
Major fight is when either one leaves the room. Somebody has got issues then.
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My arguments are pretty straightforward:
He screws up, I get mad and dont talk. This is really bad and something Im working on.
Im not a yeller or screamer, I simply do not talk when Im upset. That makes things worse and sometimes a small arguments becomes huge because of it.
At the end, he apologizes and then at some point...I do too.
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Psyah bhai, Maybe she can't see you down...you are her pillar of strength you know.
I guess the reasons you mentioned are pretty much the same for everyone :D
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PSquared & Niksik we all posted at the same time. Creepy.
tum loog teen bichree hoie behneen tu nahee jo GAOON k mailey main bicher gaee hoo? 
^ Lol. Nahi "kum" kay mele may. Waisay I hardly doubt. As far as I think hum teenon ki personalities kaafi different hain.
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Aur aap humarey bichrey huwe bhai hein?
Psyah bhai, Maybe she can't see you down...you are her pillar of strength you know.
I guess the reasons you mentioned are pretty much the same for everyone :D
My friend says that she is my rock ... I guess to a certain degree we need to be strong for each other.
Aur aap humarey bichrey huwe bhai hein?
main tu sub ka khalazaad bhai hoon :)
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Phir to hum sab to Eidi bhi milegi!
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^ aap kaun? 
Mostly when either of us are down we support each other except when I am ill she gets angry at me for being ill, because I want tars and khidmat that she does not want to give.
lol, this just made me laugh
i get upset with the hubz too for being sick... its not his fault.. i guess im just overly exhausted and seeing him being "ill" gets me more exhausted... hehe
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Whoever is at fault, ‘I’ get to apologize, cos he never will and I can’t stay naraz for long..He gives me his silent treatment which I REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY hate 
It is getting a lil better though..sometimes, like 1 out of 10, he does step forward now.
I am really happy at some of these responses, i mean, i know that I/we are normal WHEW
He never apologizes. I always do (when there is an apology necessary).
Fights usually start cz after a long day I want to see him and talk to him but he just wants me to not bother him…
:hinna: yea one of our reasons too.. sometimes my mouth hurts from being shut up all day..and I mean that seriously 
and all he does is watch political shows and cricinfo..these two are my *sautans *I tell ya…
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^ or BBC... or The News.... i think my hubby is having an affair with either one of these...
Sara, ur normal.... and reading these responses makes me feel normal too
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