Extra marital affair

So I just found out through another friend that a close friend of hers has been seeing another man behind her husband’s back. Not just seeing, but you know what I mean.

They’ve been married for 2 years. Young couple, no kids. Her husband had become suspicious when she was coming late from work every Thursday, lying that she had a late client meeting scheduled for that night. He ran into a coworker and found out that there was no such meeting, so he got working on spying.

Now he wants a divorce. The woman is embarrased but wants another chance.

The friend who told me all this is involved in “talks” and wanted my opinion. I told her I can’t really say as I am shocked for the time being.

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And soon the whole town will know.

Its probably best for them to part ways. Wud he be able to trust her after this.

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She was missing something from her marriage , so she found it outside her home. Why does she want a second chance ?
The only excuse for a woman's infidality in marriage can be if the husband is impotent. In that case she should not want a second chance either.

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These people I mentioned all live out of the country and don't come to GS so no worries.

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^

or the penis is too small and he couldn't "satisfy" her...sorry :(...I had to say it...men doesn't like to talk about it, but that is one of the reason this happens...what didn't she find in the marriage? a stud to ride...

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Its over... at least from man's side.

Refer to "Question for women" thread. :D

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I know this one race , cheating is very very common. Almost understood under suitable circumstances.

i dunno really.Allahmian forgives but it ll never be the same again husband always be suspecting something n i cant really blame him for that.some women are just like this they will never ever learn

What race would that be?

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The more you see such incidents happening, the more you realize how much sense Islamic rulings about our social lives make.

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Yeah, this is getting very common in our community.

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If she did this just for fun , adventure etc then also he is justified to divorce her. If she is from some third world country looking at what happens to women like her there she is lucky to be alive. She should run for cover and ask forgiveness from the creator not her husband.

It's best to call it quits....once that trust is gone...it's gone! even if they do manage to patch things up...he'll never truly trust her.

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No apni desi behen hai. Muslim.

I think it was an adventue that went wrong. But I really don't know what was on her mind.

Luckily the guy still has not invloved both sides of the family, only close friends are talking. It wil be quite a disaster. Jeez.

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Knockout, are you serious?

This race has some of the strongest family values. However, come to think of it, back home, the affluent people in this race are known for it. The rich and the famous that is.

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nik you have no idea. very very open, almost certain. no kidding.

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OMG.

No wonder *bhabi *swapping is very common among them.. at least in the jokes. :D

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^ lol

I head a guy passing comment on her cousin's wife. lol
How screwed up is that?