Arrey, why the woman has to do everything?

[ZareenKhan]

Re: Arrey, why the woman has to do everything?

@Niksik

1. Be good to your in laws while you oh hubby sertaj don’t have to care about even saying salam to your in laws. “Itna Bara ker ke tumhey dey diya hai.” You, on the other hand, miserable woman, weren’t raised at all. You’re a worthless piece of creation. Come on man, the husband gets a fully cooked wife as well!

That’s ofcourse wrong. Both should respect their inlaws and its a shame if the men think its cool to not give respect to their inlaws, doesnt say much about their upbringing. And believe me such men are at loss, they may force their wives to be “obedient” with his family but it wl never come from within so there is no use of such a fake relationship.

@Niksik

2. Looking for an educated wife who can go work, bring in money, add to the finances of the home, but I, the honorable mister, shall come home the same time as my wife, and sit on my lazy behind and flip channels while she cooks, does the laundry and helps the kids with the homework.

@Niksik

3. My money is MY money. Your money, begum, also belongs to me.

I think miyan biwi mein yeh mera yeh tera nahi hona chahiye. It’s the men’s responsibility to provide for his famiy which first and foremost start with his parents and the wife should have no right to object to it. Similiarly if the wife is earnings he has every right to use her money to help her family infact i would think that if the husband is earning good enough and his inlaws need his help he should be willing to take care of it.

@Niksik

4. OOOOh, I also have so many Quranic verses to prove you have to obey me BUT let’s not get into the abundance of verses that talk about my responsibilities as a husband…because they are very sacred, and you won’t understand.

Well Quran very clearly has stated the duties and rights for both so if we stop arguing over it and actually care to pick up the Quran and actually read it, our lives can be alot easier.