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nah ah... sakht gora! I am using sakht as an adjective here my friend. Thank you!
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nah ah... sakht gora! I am using sakht as an adjective here my friend. Thank you!
Allah tala appko chand aur hoor para jaisa shohar ata farmaye. Aamene
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^
sum ameen.
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Are u saying physical attraction isn't important?
I couldn't be intimate with a guy I didn't find attractive..
It is important to a certain level of course. What I wrote is how I feel....
Maybe you shouldn't pay too much attention on aesthetics as one day he may not be that good looking. Therefore, things like honesty etc are important and outweigh good looks for example. Unless of course you're ok with marrying a dishonest man with good looks.
Although, attraction was omitted from my post it doesn't dictate its importance. Its merely personal preferences...
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I wish Brother Abu Bakr Rizvi was here to air his thoughts on this topic :(
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air his thoughts on this topic
Air the thoughts?? thats just an awesome expression of i come to 'interpret' it...
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Maybe you shouldn't pay too much attention on aesthetics as one day he may not be that good looking. Therefore, things like honesty etc are important and outweigh good looks for example.
Of course.. Just I think there needs to be some sort of attraction.. but then again it doesn't necessarily have to come from physical appearance.. Each to their own..
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Air the thoughts?? thats just an awesome expression of i come to 'interpret' it...
I think I meant to write share..lol.
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Oh Sendhil :hayaa: I find him highly attractive :wub:
And no…as long as I find him attractive his skin colour or complexion doesn’t matter to me at all. If anything I’ve noticed I have a slight preference for darker men…
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He must be gora-chitta...bilkul chaand jaisa (minus the craters, of course). And a lovely pinkinsh hue should blossom across his cheeks (face waalay, of course) at the mention of sex and all potty words. You see, a blush is most visible in chitti complexions and not so much in brown and kaali ones. And that is the best indication of sharam-o-hayaa, and richness of character.
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He must be gora-chitta...bilkul chaand jaisa (minus the craters, of course). And a lovely pinkinsh hue should blossom across his cheeks (face waalay, of course) at the mention of sex and all potty words. You see, a blush is most visible in chitti complexions and not so much in brown and kaali ones. And that is the best indication of sharam-o-hayaa, and richness of character.
:@:
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eh…that can be done with ‘orgasm’ make up stuff too…
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Oh, is that your khoobsurati ka raaz?
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naa…i am still looking for that stuff…if i find it..i will use it for sure 
btw…u have derailed a perfectly normal serious thread 
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You must be kaala then. :no: Goray-chittay larkay don’t need make up.
I didn’t derail anything. I answered the question asked in the thread.
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People will vary in what qualities they want in their partner. Our culture places greater emphasis on fair skin, in general, for both genders I think....but more so for women. I remember some of my cousins in Pak ...and their friends as well...got married to considerably darker skinned men. And they'd joke around about it, but it wasn't treated as a deal-breaker.
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I will say this based upon personal experience in pakistan and most of you with darker skin would have experienced this as well, that you do not get treated as well at big hotels, clubs, restaurants etc, if you have darker skin than average, with the waiters and other staff thinking that somehow you do not belong here. Even amongst the crowd at these places, you would get strange stares from people wondering if you really have a membership or just sneaked in. I won't mention the name of the club in Karachi but will just say it is in DHA close to the sea. If you invite any guests to the club, who do not look like the average members of the club, that is they are darker than average, they can expect more security and questioning, even the staff checking with the member if you have invited any guests.
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Oh come off it, you really have a vendetta against desi society don't you? While I agree there is some discrimination in terms of weird looks from staff etc, it usually has to do with the way you dress and talk and not with your colour.