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Nope..the skin tone does not matter!
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So let me get this straight, all you ladies are saying you would have no problem marrying a guy who is lets say Muslim, tall, educated, rich and all other qualities but of a dark skin colour? . Ok, then, so what do you think about this guy. He is a famous Indian actor on US Television, considered handsome. Let’s say that this guy is muslim and has all the other qualities, can anyone of you honestly say that you and your parents and our closed minded society would have no problem with it?. Be honest and don’t forget how racist and bigoted our society really is. All the aunties would be like " Hai Hai dekho Salma ka damad kitna kala hai"
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^ Lol my fiance is dark like him, my parents didnt have a problem with it, though me and my mum are quite fair my father is dark. You go on like all pakistanis are fair or something. That guy is quite fit anyway but my man is wayyyyyy better, I've always "melted" for the chocolate kind. :D
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I don’t see what the big deal is? Yeah I would. Like I said…overall package and appearance is what matters to me, and I think, for most people men and women
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Education and family have always been important. I dont remember a time when they werent…even in our parents’ generations.
That man is actually not bad looking at all. If he was Muslim, I would consider him provided his personality was also nice.
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how can we answr this q ? .. we're not buying a 'product' .. i cnt say who'll ill like or who ll like me .. its not this simple like o mommmy look i wana buy that toy ! .. lol
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I'm really fair whereas my significant other is a lot more tanned. In general though I always found darker skinned guys more attractive...I don't know why..just a preference I suppose.
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Lol my fiance is as dark as him but not that rich or handsome but u are right in one thing my family in pakistan cant understand I am marrying him but my family here doesnt care that he is dark
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That guy looks fine, if he was a nice person then I would have no problem. Although I would force him to get a decent haircut and do something about that stubble, either go clean shaven or grown a beard.
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You fail to see the hottie he’s got on his arm. Without being racist or bigoted, one of them mallu/tamil guys would make a better example.
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I think it's a question of personal preference isn't it... whatever attracts you... tanned or fair... it's different for every person.
My tendency to be attracted to less tannish men is seen as weird among my friends... since most of them go for the tall, dark, handsome type...
Still I can clearly see that the man in that picture is quite good looking... even if he's not my type.
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You fail to see the hottie he's got on his arm.
I noticed but I did not want to open the whole 'is sarab a boy debate' again
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I want a gora chitta, dhoodh kay rang jesa larka for myself.
The one like when you see him, u say ,' hai hai dekho, hadeel ka husband kitna Sakht gora hai!'
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There should be a "click" in mind and heart of both boy and girl for each other. Now if that click is because of "fair complexion" I dont see any problem with that but sanely speaking, complexion should not be the only tick on the list.
Personally to me, it was not a deciding factor.
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Still I can clearly see that the man in that picture is quite good looking... even if he's not my type.
Same here.. He's not really my type but I can imagine a lot of girls would fancy him..
I'm attracted to loads of black and mixed-race guys..
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I think it's a question of personal preference isn't it... whatever attracts you... tanned or fair... it's different for every person. My tendency to be attracted to less tannish men is seen as weird among my friends... since most of them go for the tall, dark, handsome type...
Still I can clearly see that the man in that picture is quite good looking... even if he's not my type.
PakWoman, I think the term " tall, dark handsome" used mostly in the west is generally misunderstood by some Pakistanis. It is used by whites living in the west, while referring to men from places like Italy, Middle East, Latin America. These men are not dark by an means by our standards in Pakistan, in fact they are much lighter than the average Pakistani. They do not refer to the dark people from India and Pakistan. Thought I cleared up this misconception.
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The one like when you see him, u say ,' hai hai dekho, hadeel ka husband kitna Sakht gora hai!'
sakht?? gora b or sakht bhi??
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i read this discussion and want to conclude that most of the girls are ok with wheatish complexion, as long as they belongs from good family and have good education.
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sakht?? gora b or sakht bhi??
yeh, that is what i understood.