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^^ lol… yes a guy chasing guy is bad impression 
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Gr8....You really need to work on your english...its hard to understand what it is you're trying to say here and perhaps you arent intending insult to others but your lack of language skills makes it seem so. I'm still completely befuddled as to what it is you're trying to say....apologies for that but well, there it is.
I know you are a gori as you mentioned in your post. Yes it would be hard for you to understand. Don't worry.
Okay that was very mean. Forums work like this: There will be people that agree with you, and there will be that will disagree with you- because everyone comes from different life experiences.
When you put people down like they way you just did, you ruin your own credibility. Even when you are saying something that may be factual and makes sense, people will not take you seriously.
Mamaof3 was giving you a sincere advise, she meant no harm. Please be concious of the way you are coming off to people. Imagine that you are Mamaof3, when she reads your comment- what is she going to think you?
Islam teaches us to be reseptful to each other, be mindful of other's feelings.
I lived in a huge villa with 3 guys and 1 other girl and I was treated like royalty cuz I cud cook! :P
chef gina :)
Okay that was very mean. Forums work like this: There will be people that agree with you, and there will be that will disagree with you- because everyone comes from different life experiences.
When you put people down like they way you just did, you ruin your own credibility. Even when you are saying something that may be factual and makes sense, people will not take you seriously.
Mamaof3 was giving you a sincere advise, she meant no harm. Please be concious of the way you are coming off to people. Imagine that you are Mamaof3, when she reads your comment- what is she going to think you?
Islam teaches us to be reseptful to each other, be mindful of other's feelings.
I think I said wrong way but I didn't mean to be mean.
I just told that as a gori (I didn't say chichori that means mean) she can't understand urdu. I know that and I wanted to let her know its hard for her to understand my urdu. So what is mean in that. or how I have to tell that I know ur what?
I didn't mean to hurt her. I wanted to let her know.
You ppl make fuss of nothng. I don't understand.
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She herself posted sometimes ago that she is a gori. Now If I tell her that I know she is gori it becomes mean. How?
Gori isn't it a compliment in our culture?
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no worries Gr8...we are of many different backgrounds here on GS...sometimes I dont understand what you're trying to say and I'm sure sometimes people dont know what I"M trying to say lol....these things make the world go round...no need to get our panties all in a twist over it all yeah? :)
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Thanks Mama. I liked your post.
I didn't get your last line.
I have problem even in my own language I can't explain well what I want to say. and here I have english problem too. I know. I don't want to learn english. I don't know why.
I'm happy with my urdu. may be I love my country and language. Thats it.
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lol, i find it funny how almost everyone is saying how lucky they are to be muslims because they dont drink, do drugs, have boyfriends blah blah blah.
Really that is a very sad state of mind.
What you are really saying is that just because of religion you arent doing such, otherwise you are all up for it.
lol, i find it funny how almost everyone is saying how lucky they are to be muslims because they dont drink, do drugs, have boyfriends blah blah blah.
Really that is a very sad state of mind.
What you are really saying is that just because of religion you arent doing such, otherwise you are all up for it.
Why is that sad?
That's what makes Islam (and it's not just any religion) so special- everything that's horrible for us is haraam. And if you're avoiding all that for the sake of ALllah (swt) and Allah alone, what more can you ask for?
I know you are a gori as you mentioned in your post. Yes it would be hard for you to understand. Don't worry.
umm I am not a gori and sometimes it's hard to comprehend your posts. Sometimes i can't understand your point.
I do think you need to work on your grammer and sentence structure.
I'm happy with my urdu. may be I love my country and language. Thats it.
Dont mean to sound rude, but those that love their language and country, need not stay away from other languages. Sometimes an attitude like that makes people very xenophobic!
Why is that sad?
That's what makes Islam (and it's not just any religion) so special- everything that's horrible for us is haraam. And if you're avoiding all that for the sake of ALllah (swt) and Allah alone, what more can you ask for?
obviously, you didn't get what she said... she meant that every gora, does,'t drink, have drugs, have Bf/gfs, etc...
It is indeed a sad how we love generalizing.
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^ hehe
only gay goras have bfs normal one's have gfs.
Muslims consider these practices( drinking, premarital sex etc) as haram because it is in their religion . This is understandable and if somebody does it anyway and still call himself muslim then it would be hypocrisy big time. Otherwise inherently there is nothing wrong with any of these things.
Then what is the reason behind living under same roof. All things they can find out without living under same roof.
I won't like to see the person before marriage and ewww I can't think about living under same roof even for few minutes. Thats I will call nasty.
Are you married Gr8Heera? I doubt it. You may think you know a person so WELL before marraige, but living together, really opens your eyes. There can be sooo many things you discover that annoy you after marriage.....just living style even....but the key is working out those differences.
PS. I did not live together with my hubby before marriage....but if it were allowed...it is not completely a bad idea.
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^ i think Gr8Heera is off frm work today...so no GS for him today :D
umm I am not a gori and sometimes it's hard to comprehend your posts. Sometimes i can't understand your point.
I do think you need to work on your grammer and sentence structure.
Thanks I'll try to explain well.
Dont mean to sound rude, but those that love their language and country, need not stay away from other languages. Sometimes an attitude like that makes people very xenophobic!
Xenophobic?
^ hehe only gay goras have bfs normal one's have gfs.
Right.
Muslims consider these practices( drinking, premarital sex etc) as haram because it is in their religion . This is understandable and if somebody does it anyway and still call himself muslim then it would be hypocrisy big time. Otherwise inherently there is nothing wrong with any of these things.
Its wrong even inherently too.
Are you married Gr8Heera? I doubt it. You may think you know a person so WELL before marraige, but living together, really opens your eyes. There can be sooo many things you discover that annoy you after marriage.....just living style even....but the key is working out those differences.
PS. I did not live together with my hubby before marriage....but if it were allowed...it is not completely a bad idea.
You are right Afro but living with a person even so many years even you can understand many things.
If it were allowed in Islam tub bhi main aisa naheen karti.
^ i think Gr8Heera is off frm work today...so no GS for him today :D
I lovely friend is dreaming.
Gr8heera I would like to help you with you English.
first you said
[QUOTE]
I lovely friend is dreaming.
[/QUOTE]
should be,
I, lovely friend, WAS dreaming. (if past tense)
or
I, lovely friend, AM dreaming. (present tense- if you are dreaming now)
'Is' is NEVER used after 'I'. I don't understand why pures Pakistanis do that!! My mom does that to when she speaks English, and it annoys the heck out of me!