Forget about him then. He is most likely married in his late 40's and now that you are getting serious with him he is opting out to find another prey for another month.
Count your lucky stars you only wasted a few weeks.
experience talks, in fact shouts :)
Yes, I stick by that JimmyKimble - he does have "qualities" (without repeating everything again, please scroll up to my first post!)
So he was wacky and he had qualities. Interesting mix.
experience talks, in fact shouts :)
Yeah you should know. Remember, when I acted like a 21 year old blonde and had your undies in a twist for about a month? :D
funguy you have been doing that too? :nono: 
allah taubah astaghfar 
Re: Your thoughts please??
JimmyKimble - I think you're reading far too much into it! Perhaps "Wacky" was the wrong word to use but I'm not going to get all pernickety!
Funguy - I very much doubt he was 40 and already married, he certainly did not sound it nor look it from the photographs I saw of him and his family!
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dude we are just talking, take it easy,
Funguy - I very much doubt he was 40 and already married, he certainly did not sound it nor look it from the photographs I saw of him and his family!
You honestly believe it is hard to produce a few good looking photos from the internet?
From the way you are interacting here, you seem very experienced :D
So what's your other GS nick?
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Eh?? I am 'taking it easy' just being polite and responding to everyones post hahaha
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Hmmm...I think genuine photographs are not that easy to produce!
Hahaha very amusing...!
What did I say in my first post???
while you at it tell that guys ID too, is it FunGay?? he amusing and pretty whacky
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Well obviously he was only 'pretending' to tick all your boxes, because in the end he said 'im jus a nice guy' nothing more. He wanted you to be more open. correct me if im wrong but open about how many guys you've been with? what you wud do with them? (please dont be offended) im jus asking.. Ok so after all this he has decided he doesnt want you because you dont jus give yourself away like that. and rightly so! Why shud you! Anyway if this guy cant see how much self respect you have then i wud suggest you jus forget about this guy. As he said he wud of ended up hurting you. I know its hard... but its only been a month? Right? So im sure you'll find someone with ALL the right qualities and will not turn around n said no i dont want u coz you dont open AFTER A MONTH!!!
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Yeah I think a month is too short of a time to open anything. I think you did the right thing by keeping it closed.
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lovelychica-- count yourself lucky and move on if a guy is really in to you for marriage reasons he doesnt give such lame excuses point is he wasnt good enough for you and soon u will get someone better much better...........also be yourself if a guy likes you for who you are then hes a keeper hence the whole confusion about you being reserved or not i think you did the right thing.......smile and move on
Yeah I think a month is too short of a time to open anything. I think you did the right thing by keeping it closed.
see what I mean :D
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Seriously girls, I am really surprised (or m i?) on some of the replies here like
"he was 40..."
"he wasnt good enough for..."
"count your self lucky.."
"he was only 'pretending' to tick all your boxes.."
Why is it hard to even think that he was genuine in giving the reasons? may be she was not clinking for him? He clicks for her does not mandate other way round too. Why is that if a guy does not click for girl, "he was not good enough and was not meant to be" and when the girl does not clicks for a guy and he refuses its still "he was not good enough..."
I mean how many of you know that he was not honest in reasoning and HOW do you guys know? you have hardly read 3 lines told to you by other party.
Re: Your thoughts please??
lol Mixed Beauty it was nothing like that ! When I say reserved I don't mean hiding secrets and holding back information! There is no need for that unless you have something to hide! I think he was expecting me to be really really enthusiastic or something, perhaps a bit chirpier! He didn't finish work until around 11pm so the days we did speak it was quite late and as a working woman myself I probably sounded half asleep ! lol
Am grateful for all those that have submitted helpful posts !
Am grateful for all those that have submitted helpful posts !
Not a problem at all. Mention nawt tey fiker nawt. :D
lAm grateful for all those that have submitted helpful posts !
abhee naee naee ho na GS per iss leyeee you are courteous abhee kuch dinoon main you will be like PCG
PS: If you dont know what I mean, wait for PCG's reply :D
I blame the guys on the site you're using (SM??), they think they can know everything about the potential partner in a month and make a decision. If they are not content then they just move on.
People are all different, forget about him.
Seriously girls, I am really surprised (or m i?) on some of the replies here like
"he was 40..."
"he wasnt good enough for..."
"count your self lucky.."
"he was only 'pretending' to tick all your boxes.."
Why is it hard to even think that he was genuine in giving the reasons? may be she was not clinking for him? He clicks for her does not mandate other way round too. Why is that if a guy does not click for girl, "he was not good enough and was not meant to be" and when the girl does not clicks for a guy and he refuses its still "he was not good enough..."
I mean how many of you know that he was not honest in reasoning and HOW do you guys know? you have hardly read 3 lines told to you by other party.
What do you want us to say to her? Oh well he didnt like u get over it. Or he was the best your ever gonna get! I doubt she wants to read that when she already said she cant stop thinking abt him so sayin that is only gonna make her worse!
Maybe you shud ring him and tell him how u feel, Then possibly meet up and see if that 'click' is there.