Your job his job

Mad_Hatter · December 1, 2011, 8:21pm

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Doesn't it also depend on the career? If i had a career that i'd built up over years and he's just got a job that can easily to be transferred to another country, then its a different issue.
also i wouldn't know why he would apply outside of the country unless he intended to take it anyways. so really they've made the decision beforehand.

The feminazi says no.

sweefs · December 1, 2011, 9:16pm

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id let him take his job and leave mine, then i can moan and be pissy about the fact that we moved cuz of HIS job so he better earn as best he can so i don’t have to work

blackforest_360 · December 1, 2011, 9:32pm

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it's quite simple cm; whoever makes the most money wins

Gaia · December 1, 2011, 10:05pm

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It depends on pay and stability. But we stay together, there is no need to separate because of a new job offer.

partyslims · December 1, 2011, 10:31pm

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As long as there's a kitchen she's good to go.

TheNoodle · December 2, 2011, 12:35am

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I find the lack of feminism in this thread disturbing. Guppans, I am disappoint

Gaia · December 2, 2011, 1:06am

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Any man who throws a kitchen comment should be locked in the kitchen himself.

There, now you have feminism in this thread, Noodle.

partyslims · December 2, 2011, 1:22am

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She used to lock me in the kitchen all the time. How do you think I got so fat? :-/

Gaia · December 2, 2011, 1:30am

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Soo can women use this excuse when hubby's call them moti? You know..................You used to lock me in the kitchen all the time. How do you think I got so fat?:-/

partyslims · December 2, 2011, 3:23am

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Well, now I've placed a treadmill next to the stove so she doesn't have any excuses but to remain fit.

Reha · December 2, 2011, 4:20am

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:k:

Silaaj · December 2, 2011, 6:11am

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I am a guy, but from anyone's perspective, how can something like this be pre-decided? Whatever decision a woman makes at such a juncture would depend on the individual circumstances of the relationship/job etc, and would be decided based on that. Some may chose to move, some may chose to stay, some oramay chose to split temporarily. It all depends. No right or wrong response to it.

mirage · December 2, 2011, 1:09pm

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if my career is fulfilling, and I love my job, why not. There could be other ways of unision than giving up on my career, please. Yes Im a “career woman”.

Gaia · December 2, 2011, 3:55pm

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Who said she's actually gonna workout?

partyslims · December 2, 2011, 3:56pm

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She better

Demilitarize · December 2, 2011, 4:07pm

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The reason for the thread is to see what the idealists say, rather than the realists.

rolla_coaster · December 3, 2011, 6:43am

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not take the offer if hes making more than i would.

Wane · December 3, 2011, 9:27am

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what are those ways, mirage?

mirage · December 3, 2011, 5:30pm

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doesnt my snooty tell how carried away I was. That being said, there are many ways ofcourse. Like both the life partners sit together and prioritize what they want the most. Career is important of course but it comes after the marital life. But its not necessarily the wife who "should" give up on her career or attainment. whose career is more important and fruitful should be considered too. We shouldnt expect wives to be a born and for granted symbol of sacrifice.

Wane · December 4, 2011, 8:09am

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recipe for confrontation if both are headstrong. what happens then?

and whose career is more important? who decides that?

and what is a fruitful career?