Only for unmarried guppans.
Simple question. You both have jobs. You get a job offer to move cities/countries.
Do you take it and leave your husband with his job or force him to move to where you are or not take the job offer.
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…nice one..
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Thank you thank you
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CM it depends who is making more money 
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Equal pay. :D
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how do unmarried guppas leave their *husbands *behind?
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I wont move to other city/country. Even if he is okay with it. Actually i will be worried if he is okay it 
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Oh boy, oh boy! A thread just for my kind!
I am surprisingly traditional enough to think it's best to move to follow the husband's career rather than the wife's. The reason being, there may be stretches of time where I wanted to stay home and look after a family in which case his career and its development is something I'd want to help foster.
If I got an amazing job offer and he wanted us to move so I could pursue it AND he could line up a job for himself, sure I'd take it. But I would never demand it, it would be a conversation where we looked at what was in the best interest for our family.
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how do unmarried guppas leave their *husbands *behind?
Its the latest thing in modern technology. Blow up doll for women!
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exactly CM confused the hell outta me
maybe on a different planet one can be unmarried and still have a husband ... who knows
how do unmarried guppas leave their *husbands *behind?
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Oh boy, oh boy! A thread just for my kind!
I am surprisingly traditional enough to think it's best to move to follow the husband's career rather than the wife's. The reason being, there may be stretches of time where I wanted to stay home and look after a family in which case his career and its development is something I'd want to help foster.
If I got an amazing job offer and he wanted us to move so I could pursue it AND he could line up a job for himself, sure I'd take it. But I would never demand it, it would be a conversation where we looked at what was in the best interest for our family.
In other words.....you have no clue :D
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What am I missing in this exchange between you and Nomi? There’s more to this thread than meets the eye isn’t there?
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nope…nishta…nothing…zilch…
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Equal pay. :D
Then it depends on mutual understanding, lot of discussion to do. Like if you have kids where do want to raise them in which environment, neighborhood, job opportunities, mainly who is the main bread and butter maker if its husband than he has to think a lot and wife should go with it. I think these decisions can not be made in one day and right away it needs lot of thought process and understanding.
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What the man said. Nothing at all.
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Then it depends on mutual understanding, lot of discussion to do. Like if you have kids where do want to raise them in which environment, neighborhood, job opportunities, mainly who is the main bread and butter maker if its husband than he has to think a lot and wife should go with it. I think these decisions can not be made in one day and right away it needs lot of thought process and understanding.
Just like Sehrysh - no freaking clue eh?
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In other words.....you have no clue :D
Of course I have a clue. I gave an answer which considered multiple factors in the decision-making. I have thought about this quite a lot since it's been a sticking point in a few rishta tales.
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CM you cannot just say to your wife out of no where lets go we are moving and your wife shouldn’t say hey lets move. Life is not simple especially if you have children or in future you have plan to have children.
Get married and share your experiences
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Again no clue because factors differ and you have different answers depending on the factors. So in other words it could be one of a multitude of answers available in the world. The answer could possibly be cake. :D
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nope...nishta...nothing...zilch....
What the man said. Nothing at all.
Tum dono say mujhay sharafat aur seedhay jawaab ki umeed nahin hai - so what gives?