Re: Your job his job
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recipe for confrontation if both are headstrong. what happens then?
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Well in a married life, with all other things, people learn to compromise on issues and subside. one in a hundred married couples will have both being head strong and not settling down for a mutual betterment. Having said that, if someone' marriage has to break, it will, the job being the reason or anything else.
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and whose career is more important? who decides that?
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Every decision, including whose career is more important, it a responsibility of both the partners to take with mutual concern. when a couple shares their life and everything together, every decision should be made with having the concern of the other person too.
Two aspects are important about career. First, if your job is "fruitful" (im going to explain it, yes) and second, whether you are satisfied with it too, in terms of a satisfaction you derive from your work.
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and what is a fruitful career?
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A fruitful career is one which is long term, prospering and financially secure. That whether you are satisfied with it too, and are into it more than for financial concerns only, makes it perfect.
Now coming back to whose career is more important, when a couple sits together, and each partner is willing to probe the situation without any prejudice and ego problem, they can weigh pros and cons and decide. If being together is what they want on the top of every thing, they will create a way for it anyway.