Re: Your Husband Wants You To Work
Yeah, i will talk to her dad, mom, brother, sister, counsins and maybe her neighbours too.
Kuch aur reh gaya hai?
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well, after the marriage… the parents should really make them do anything. It’s their life.
Prior to that… they should consider it.
As PCG said, he thinks it’s completely HIS right to give his wife some right at all… yeah ok :halo:
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You both don’t agree, fine. It’s not like i am asking you to marry me 
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Just take it easy, no need to start jumping up & down in your seat.
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You're not going to get to talk to people who shut their doors in your face when you have that sort of approach.
Maybe in your OR, your commands run and people obey. Doesn't happen outside that environment. Sorry to break your bubble.
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It's not personal. That approach is very damaging, and extends to the rest of us. You are expecting women in general to buckle down and quit working and be financially dependent on their husbands, because that is whatt YOU expect in YOUR ideal woman.
Not appropriate.
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^ just letting u know what any normal woman would think
Taking your advice. Done with this back and forth.
I have respect for every single guy out there who wants to provide for their wife but will give the wife the option about whether she wants to earn a living or not. He makes it her decision..not his own.
Any guy that wants to make the decision for her. …
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not to mention.. the fact that ur views will be fed down into future generations is quite sad
get with the times....
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Yeah. Notice he does not have one good reason for “giving his wife the RIGHT to do volunteer work, but she is not allowed to earn money”.
Simply illogical.
It's not personal. That approach is very damaging, and extends to the rest of us. You are expecting women in general to buckle down and quit working and be financially dependent on their husbands, because that is whatt YOU expect in YOUR ideal woman.
Not appropriate.
^ and disrespectful
PCG, we should just know this.. we are women
our duty is to stay at home and cook and breed and ofcourse house work… anything beyond that is a right given to us by our husbands.. (sorry not mine.. )
its like a gift… we should just be thankful.
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Ok. You are right.
To all men: THANK-YOU for letting me lick your boots for some money. THANK-YOU!
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from islamic point of view a husband CANNOT force his wife to work. It is his duty to provide for wife & kids. But wife can work if that will benefit the education , well being of children or lets say if that helps in acquiring important assets like house , car etc. But again it's totaly upto the wife she has the right to refuse.
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so the guy doesn't want his wife to work ... who gives a crap ... he wants a housewife and he'll go get one ... you might not agree with his views and sahi hai no ones asking you to marry him ... there is no need to go after him like he abused ur family or something ... chill he didn't say anything about ur views even thou he doesn't liek em ... so just respectfully disagree
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^ a house is an asset but a car? hmmmm i dunno
a husband needs to provide a roof for his wife, but it doesnt mean he needs to buy a house or spend a fortune on a lavish palace...
i think theres a limit to everything
maybe we ought to demand less (in terms of materialistic things) but where it matters, do raise our concerns (not voice)
PCG, right on..
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yeah be uncivilized and bashful towards someone that u barely even kno and start judging him for his opinions just cuz he does not agree with your lot ... yay way to go
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^ from accouting point of view car is an asset.
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^ a depreciating asset
libra... sure we're making fun of him... not cus he doesnt agree with us, but because his views dont work very well in today's world.
If someone is trying to show him the other side.. which will be more beneficial, i dont see the harm in that.
simple
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The only way to weed out damaging ideas such as his is to show him the door and make sure he understands those views are NOT valued today anymore.
Its one thing if he prefers a SAHM because he works long hours and would like someone to hang out at home more than he does for kids, etc. If he says that, it makes some sense.
But he says "allow her", "give her the right", like he is her Lord or something. And that kind of right, only God gives to humans, and God has already given us all the right to our own free will. Which he plans on taking away from someone.
So, uh YEAH. This is one kid that deserves the comments he is getting.
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uh no he doesn't ... everyone in this forum including u pcg says alot of crap about alot of things that people don't agree with ... no one goes after u like that ... and if u have such issues pm the guy ... why fight with every guy who disagrees with u
ishaz ... maybe the small world he lives in his views work perfectly fine ... who knows ... let the guy be ... in his frst post he said these are my views feel free to disagree ... and he'll get the kinda grl he wants ... its not like hes cheating or wants to cheat ... if u are tryin him to show the other side be respectful about it ... and honestly from the past few posts ... there is nothin civilized or respectful about the discussion ... if anything ur just pushin him more to the other side