if you sit at home on your fat a**, it creates housework.
how so? so if ur husband is sitting there minding his own business, how has that created housework for you? maybe yes, because he may not be helping u out, it may take u longer to do a task.. but dont see how thats created more housework..
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so women shouldn't women be expected to work simply on the basis of their gender?are they inferior to men in their ability to work and perform job tasks ?
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i am not sure where ive said women shouldnt have to work based on their gender. I work myself and never have i thought i was inferior to a male counterpart..
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Should men have the choice to not work then ?
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why not? men should be allowed a choice.. and they do have a choice.
If they dont feel upto it, why should they be forced. But like any normal human being who understands responsibility, a man will know whats in the best interest for his family and him.
Just like when a women goes out to work or decides to stay home... she does so with the best interest of her family. Sometimes (actually most often) our choices are dependant on our circumstances in life... theres no real right or wrong
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Of the couples i know in the UK where both partners work, men take equal responsibility with cooking and children, if not more, unless your referring to typical desi/freshees who see their contribution to the home as no more then financial.
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Well i work and so does the hubz.... but i dont expect him to go home and do all the stuff that i do. I expect him to help me out and be there for me whenever i need a hand...
Just cus we both work, doesnt mean we go halves on everything we do at home. He does his bit in running the house smoothly and i do my bit. And we're quite content with that... I dont think he expects me to clean the car, do the gardening, throwing of the rubbish and all that jazz... just like i dont expect him to do stuff that i would naturally be better at.
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