This if my question to all the single ladies here on GS:
Would you marry a guy you just meet who is in remission from cancer for little over 3 years??? comes frm a nice family, is a sweetheart and good looking.
Please no stupid jokes or comments.
Re: Would you marry him knowing he had cancer?
No.
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Is this a proposal?
Do you like him?
Is it personal choice?
Re: Would you marry him knowing he had cancer?
No.
Are you trying to claim single status?
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Are you trying to claim single status?
It says, "would".
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Are you trying to claim single status?
I see something burnin :@:
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If you got a proposal.
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No wouldnt.
Re: Would you marry him knowing he had cancer?
Speaking from personal experience, it depends. I said no once, but contemplated saying yes in a sort of similar situation the second time.
The word cancer is terrifying but one can get past it IF there is a hope for a future together and there's a real connection with the partner. If all you know about the other person is that they have/had cancer and the future is uncertain, the fear would make one say no.
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No i wouldnt.
But if i fall in love with someone like that then i would not let that stop me from marrying them.
However, i just very recently heard of someone who got their only daughter married to her khala’s son who has cancer and who is said to have left only couple of years left to live. He is son of a bigshot, dnt ask me who i can’t tell. But the bottom line is they very well know that he is gonna die and they are just hoping to have a child so that the family can have his “neshani” and they wl live happily with it 
. I don’t know how people have the strength to do such qurabnis but hatts off to them! :k:.
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ya needs a backup too........
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maybe she actually loves him enough to make that sacrifice.
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From what i was told, it was not love. Pure sacrifice!
But to be honest, i did doubt it. I was thinking she must have married him for the name and the endless amount of money that comes with it. You know alot of people, esp nowadays, can do almost anything for money and it sucks but it is true!
However, we can’t say for sure what it was that made them make that decision!
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Re: Would you marry him knowing he had cancer?
This if my question to all the single ladies here on GS:
Would you marry a guy you just meet who is in remission from cancer for little over 3 years??? comes frm a nice family, is a sweetheart and good looking.
Please no stupid jokes or comments.
why not?
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i know what ur saying, i was thinking the same but i guess we r thinking all this cuz we dnt expect people 2 make such big qurbanis but there r people out there who r capable of doing this and more. so ya like i said b4, we cnt know for sure.
And its not like the girl belongs to a middle class family, they r rich too but obviously the other side must be 100X more richer n well known too.
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Kabhi critical ho kay maat nahi howi
haan, optimistic aur idealistic reh ke hoti rehti hey
i know what ur saying, i was thinking the same but i guess we r thinking all this cuz we dnt expect people 2 make such big qurbanis but there r people out there who r capable of doing this and more. so ya like i said b4, we cnt know for sure.
And its not like the girl belongs to a middle class family, they r rich too but obviously the other side must be 100X more richer n well known too.
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No matter what we say, brutal ground reality is that, in the absence of love, most of the human beings will not marry a person (be it man or woman) with any preconditions of illness that has chance of becoming fatal illness.
Of course there always are exception and I know one such exception but then there was love involved. Sister of my friend married a guy wholes both legs were amputated after an accident when he was 16 or so. Now this girl family is a very well of family with girl herself holding master degree in business administration from reputed university. Just telling this to make the point that she did not have any social pressure to marry him. Parents of the girl of course opposed it to death but she stood fast and they are a happy couple now since last 6 years of so
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no
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I think it would be a very hard decision to make, especially if you know know/fall in love with the guy first. I think most of us have the swan-mindset, we all tend to see ourselves as mating for life with one partner. How many people have you heard saying they are a 'one-man- type of gal? Quite a few I'm sure.
In answer to rabia's Q, if he is in remission then his chances of surviving the cancer would seem to be higher. In those kind of circumstances, it's certainly up to the girl in question whether she is prepared to take the risk of marrying someone like this, it would take a strong person to do so and I would commend anyone who is able to look beyond the illness aspect and at the man in question.