Re: Would you divorce your wife if you mom told you to?
I simply think you should be honest and straighforward. Joint family is not for everyone (atleast not for me). I would feel terrible if I pretend it didn't bother me and cause issues for everyone later on to the point of upsetting my husband and his mother.
It's so important to discuss these issues PRIOR to marraige. I know it can be tough in arranged situations when there isn't much interaction but it can still be done indirectly.
Re: Would you divorce your wife if you mom told you to?
I dont think i will ever leave my wife just cuz someone says so, Allah na karey aisa kisi key upar bhi waqt aaye :k:
Re: Would you divorce your wife if you mom told you to?
It is stupid on part of mom if she demand son to divorce the wife without a valid reason. (according to sharia daughter in law has no obligation to serve In-Laws, it is sons duty, so if they feels she is not doing something for them does not constitute a valid reason)
If by chance anybody can tell me the namE .....I don't. Remember the name...it has humyon saeed in it...it was pretty famous. ...
which serial?
no she didnt got married again..
One of my uncles divorced his wife after my grandma told him to. They said she had ‘bad morals’ cos she lived with him before marriage (so what does that make my uncle as well 
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are you sure you have NEVER dis-obeyed your mum and ABSOLUTELY sure of it?
Re: Would you divorce your wife if you mom told you to?
No, i would never divorce my wife just because mom says so. However, i won't take insulting my mom lightly.
No, i would never divorce my wife just because mom says so. However, i won't take insulting my mom lightly.
Yes this is the right way, as these kind of conflicts could resolve without resorting to extreme measures.
No 6chora... to some people IT IS black & white. I'm not trolling, I posted this question cuz I heard a dialogue from my husband when I got married... where he said "dont ever do badtameezi to my mom, or I'll divorce you there and then... even if you were justified".... so back to my question, would a husband just leave his wife if she had an argument with his mom and somehow displayed disrespect towards her?
If my husband said that to me, I would reply the same way and threaten him with a divorce if he ever disprects or does batameezi with my mom, even if he's justified.
yes, I truly agree with you - our culture always blames the woman, never the man (I don’t know where this originates from). Even when a couple have daughters, the boy’s family blames the woman - yet biologically it’s dependent on the male body.
Another stupid thing (forgive my language - but this is something I hate), is dehej (dowry) where the boy’s side suck so much from the girl’s side and they girl’s side just keep giving in, “just to get their daughter married”. This is ridiculous!!! Why do people not respect their daughters? These dehej seekers are literally beggars!!! (I’m sorry to be a bit off the topic - my views in no way accept a couple living together before marriage, but just the fact that only the woman is being blamed.) Allah knows best and may He forgive me if my views are wrong in any manner.
If my husband said that to me, I would reply the same way and threaten him with a divorce if he ever disprects or does batameezi with my mom, even if he's justified.
Whether one like them or not, but no one should to do batamzeezi with elders, talking about having respect, there is difference in not having respect for someone or being disrespectful.
Depending the story behind, no one could force someone to respect them, but he should not allowed to be disrespectful.
No 6chora... to some people IT IS black & white. I'm not trolling, I posted this question cuz I heard a dialogue from my husband when I got married... where he said "dont ever do badtameezi to my mom, or I'll divorce you there and then... even if you were justified".... so back to my question, would a husband just leave his wife if she had an argument with his mom and somehow displayed disrespect towards her?
And you still married him? I would have left him there are then!
Rotflol. Good oNe!
Why would any mom have such a want? I am shocked nobody here gave that a thought. Its either you 1) dont trust your mothers 2) think they r capable of wanting to ruin your homes.
I dont see why any parents would want to break their child's happy home.
^Oh I felt really horrible... I was like WHAT? But I kept my mouth shut... still wonder about it though. Was he just saying that cuz he didn't know me proper at that time (ours was an arranged marriage) or what? Would he really divorce me if I was disrespectful to his mom?
men really say some time very harsh words and it would be a reason that he didnt know u but still its disrespectfull o say such big words.
i had a situation my family that the boy has done nikha where his mom wanted andhe did it and for some reason that mom of his didnt like the girl before ruksaty and said his boy to give the divorce and he did it so with out thinking any thing.....seeee these things happen on momss requestsss:ASA:
If by chance anybody can tell me the namE .....I don't. Remember the name...it has humyon saeed in it...it was pretty famous. ...
Doraha. Awesome drama.
Doraha. Awesome drama.
yes exactly....thank you Pareezay....I couldnt see the last episode....Now would defitnately watch it.