Re: Would you consider this controlling behavior? Is this love? I want to leave so ba
How come new version of gupshup doesn't have a dislike button? I want to dislike everything AzzanCheema "the psychologist" dude is posting.
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I,m psychologist . And i know better where is the major problem in both of Them.. You guys can,t see from where i do..
Ok Dr jee. What do you have to say about him strangling her and looking into her eyes while doing it????
Re: Would you consider this controlling behavior? Is this love? I want to leave so ba
Ok Dr jee. What do you have to say about him strangling her and looking into her eyes while doing it????
Muhabbat ki pehli neshani.
Re: Would you consider this controlling behavior? Is this love? I want to leave so ba
Really ur a psychologist who cant tell the normal signs of a sociopath?
yeah ap Jali degree walay psychologist hay ya arm chair walay ? 
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I,m psychologist . And i know better where is the major problem in both of Them.. You guys can,t see from where i do..
I can see that you don't know how to use an apostrophe.
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I,m psychologist . And i know better where is the major problem in both of Them.. You guys can,t see from where i do..
Bull crap. If you're a psychologist then God help your patients.
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I,m psychologist . And i know better where is the major problem in both of Them.. You guys can,t see from where i do..
Normally, a trained psychologist would like to hear the other side of the story too. Your approach is wrong.
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sometimes sisters n bros strangle each other too
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I,m psychologist . And i know better where is the major problem in both of Them.. You guys can,t see from where i do..
Right - I'm pretty sure you can't see much from where your head is stuck. And yes - God help your freakin' patients.
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And he is never returning. 
Re: Would you consider this controlling behavior? Is this love? I want to leave so ba
sometimes sisters n bros strangle each other too
That's different. First it usually stops happening once the siblings are past puberty. Second they grew up together, they can kick the crap out of each other and still be best friends.
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Awesome decision sweets!. Just do what ya need to do in your life..I pray insha'allah ya find someone much caring.
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I,m psychologist . And i know better where is the major problem in both of Them.. You guys can,t see from where i do..
Seriously? I'm a psychologist myself and I cannot believe you would advise someone to stay in a situation in which their LIFE is in immediate danger. That is te first thing you look after! If and how to make this marriage work is not important considering the threats to her life. Seriously! Aaah!
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Thank You Guys!
I am glad to know that Peoples are so “RESPECTFUL” And they really know how to give ,An expression of respect of deference; regards; as, to send ones respects to another.***
Marriages are complex relationships that involve many factors from children, work and even family. People often make mistakes that can lead to devastating consequences. Here are three of the main mistakes that couples make***
1 Wanting to be understood before seeking to understand.***
Many couples start off with this problem. They want to express their feelings and be understood without letting the other person do the same. ***It is important that you take the time to listen as well. Your partner needs to be understood and heard just as much as you do and it is incredibly selfish to not allow them that when you yourself would like to be given that courtesy.
2 Lack of communication.***
Getting caught up in life is one of the main problems to over come with communication. Some of us lead lives that are so busy we rarely have time for our loved ones and when there are kids involved, we tend to give any free time we have to ensure that they have the life they deserve. But it is important to find the time to talk to each other. Ask how their day was, or anything that might be bothering them. Listen and then share your own experiences.***
3 Not spending enough time together.***
Finding time to bond and share experiences together is crucial to keeping a marriage together. After all, this is the reason you got married in the first place. By not spending time together, you end up growing apart and finding other people to spend time with which can lead to infidelity and distance between couples.***
**AND WHAT IS THE CASE OF THIS LADY? **
She didn,t share evrything .. She only told those things which make peoples pity on her , Because she is confuse to taking decision .She finding help from some opinion which make her to be saparated.***
We don’t have right to give very poor suggestion to peoples which increase trouble in couple and ESPECIALLY WE DON,T HAVE TO RIGHT MAKE OPINION FOR PEOPLES WHOME WE DIDN’T LISTEN TO YET. Yes I am talking about her husband. I believe that positive thinking human functioning will arise, which achieves a scientific understanding and effective interventions to build thriving individuals, families, and communities.***
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How are your doing OP?
Re: Would you consider this controlling behavior? Is this love? I want to leave so ba
Thank You Guys!
I am glad to know that Peoples are so “RESPECTFUL” And they really know how to give ,An expression of respect of deference; regards; as, to send ones respects to another.***
Marriages are complex relationships that involve many factors from children, work and even family. People often make mistakes that can lead to devastating consequences. Here are three of the main mistakes that couples make***
1 Wanting to be understood before seeking to understand.***
Many couples start off with this problem. They want to express their feelings and be understood without letting the other person do the same. ***It is important that you take the time to listen as well. Your partner needs to be understood and heard just as much as you do and it is incredibly selfish to not allow them that when you yourself would like to be given that courtesy.
2 Lack of communication.***
Getting caught up in life is one of the main problems to over come with communication. Some of us lead lives that are so busy we rarely have time for our loved ones and when there are kids involved, we tend to give any free time we have to ensure that they have the life they deserve. But it is important to find the time to talk to each other. Ask how their day was, or anything that might be bothering them. Listen and then share your own experiences.***
3 Not spending enough time together.***
Finding time to bond and share experiences together is crucial to keeping a marriage together. After all, this is the reason you got married in the first place. By not spending time together, you end up growing apart and finding other people to spend time with which can lead to infidelity and distance between couples.***
**AND WHAT IS THE CASE OF THIS LADY? **
She didn,t share evrything .. She only told those things which make peoples pity on her , Because she is confuse to taking decision .She finding help from some opinion which make her to be saparated.***
We don’t have right to give very poor suggestion to peoples which increase trouble in couple and ESPEACILLY WE DON,T HAVE TO RIGHT MAKE OPINION FOR PEOPLES WHOME WE DIDN’T LISTEN TO YET. Yes I am talking about her husband. I believe that positive thinking human functioning will arise, which achieves a scientific understanding and effective interventions to build thriving individuals, families, and communities.***
You are absolutely right in that understanding, communication and spending time is important in a healthy relationship. What I disagree on is that this advice fits the situation as this is no healthy marriage and a womans life is in danger!
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leave him be he suffers from stereotypical stubbornness syndrome.
Not one reply to his being a “psychologist” 
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Rchange@ read down and try get the point what i shared.
She didn,t share evrything .. She only told those things which make peoples pity on her , Because she is confuse to taking decision .She finding help from some opinion which make her to be separated.We don’t have right to give very poor suggestion to peoples which increase trouble in couple and ESPEACILLY WE DON,T HAVE TO RIGHT MAKE OPINION FOR PEOPLES WHOME WE DIDN’T LISTEN TO YET. Yes I am talking about her husband.
HOW CAN I SAY TO HER .. GO TO SEPARATE BEFORE LISTEN HER HUSBAND? Thats the only one my point .I can not forget Islamic law too.1st of all i am a muslim and i have to follow islamic law then other books***
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Rchange@ read down and try get the point what i shared.
1st of all i am a muslim and i have to follow islamic law then other books***
Precisely for this reason you should condemn the husband's physical attack on his wife rather than asking her to give him yet another chance. The moment he strangled his wife he violated Islamic law.
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Rchange@ read down and try get the point what i shared.
She didn,t share evrything .. She only told those things which make peoples pity on her , Because she is confuse to taking decision .She finding help from some opinion which make her to be separated.We don’t have right to give very poor suggestion to peoples which increase trouble in couple and ESPEACILLY WE DON,T HAVE TO RIGHT MAKE OPINION FOR PEOPLES WHOME WE DIDN’T LISTEN TO YET. Yes I am talking about her husband.
HOW CAN I SAY TO HER .. GO TO SEPARATE BEFORE LISTEN HER HUSBAND? Thats the only one my point .I can not forget Islamic law too.1st of all i am a muslim and i have to follow islamic law then other books***
Because he tried to kill her, that's why. I never advices her to get a divorce right this second or even to give it another chance. All I am trying to point out is that in this situation the first priority should be to get her to a safe place, which she has done. After that deciding if and how to safe the marriage is step two.