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A HIGH man is a HAPPY man . Go for him .
Yup - it helps us by making us believe that we are married to some beautiful chick :D
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excuse me but i dont belong to an unstable family strucuture nor is he a dil paink .. u should watch what u say .. n doesnt matter how rich girl is b4 marraige ..
Then what exactly are the reasons that your family finds him suitable for you other than the reason that he is rich? You both find each other attractive, but is that all you are going to be living with your whole life? 10 years down the road and you'll be protecting your kids from the same charsi/sharabi father. I don't even feel bad for apologizing for calling these words for him because that is what he is. Honestly Soni, you need lots of growing up before tying the knot.
P.S: sorry for judging your family structure but that was my conclusion from your previous threads(your bhabi's case, etc)
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Then what exactly are the reasons that your family finds him suitable for you other than the reason that he is rich? You both find each other attractive, but is that all you are going to be living with your whole life? 10 years down the road and you'll be protecting your kids from the same charsi/sharabi father. I don't even feel bad for apologizing for calling these words for him because that is what he is. Honestly Soni, you need lots of growing up before tying the knot.
P.S: sorry for judging your family structure but that was my conclusion from your previous threads(your bhabi's case, etc)
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his bggest advabtage is that he lives here .. we wont hv to bring a guy whom we dun even know thaat well from pkstn n baby sit him .. n that our families know eacho ther since we were born
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marry someone who smokes pot ? .. do u think smoking pot is bad quality to havein a life partner ? .. what if they dirnk and smoke pot at the tsame time ? .. is it double bad or si it nont a big deal to u ? ..
It's wrong on all reasons.
It's bad morally
It's bad religiously
It's bad for health
But these are just activities not addictions and can be corrected with some help. If the person belongs to a good family, has good values and good education then it's not as bad as everyone is making it to look like.
People do psychedelic drugs to avoid reality, they want relive from some sort of problem. So you have to find out what it is, think of it as you have to cure some disease. Talk to the guy, see how you feel about him and trust your guts. It's your life and only you can make the best decision for yourself.
ps.
Medically pot is harmless
Alcohol is very dangerous and even one beer a week is killer for the liver.
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his bggest advabtage is that he lives here .. we wont hv to bring a guy whom we dun even know thaat well from pkstn n baby sit him .. n that our families know eacho ther since we were born
Is there a lack of guys in your community? I'm sure you will find someone nice along the way, maybe at your school or work? Decision is yours.
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Only if he shares the maryjane.
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there are all kinds of pot smokers. carl sagan to pappu charsi. it isn't exactly black and white, imho.
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Soni, what kind of people do you know and have around you?
If your partner is smoking pot, how about help him quit by starting pot growing business for medical purposes?
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Even speaking from a non-religious perspective, I would not want my family member married to one doing drugs or smoking cigarettes. Cigarettes nay be nore harmful healthwise, but I hear drugs (including the mild pot) may not keep you in your senses. It may also be masking an addicitve personality that could go on to worse addictions.
For those who choose to stay away from drinks, even more power to them (though personally I have different views on that).
Sorry but I disagree. Alcohol is worse than pot in every way, including being addictive. The only reason pot is considered a gateway drug (although I doubt that's as true today as it was in the past) is because the laws have pushed it into the fringe of society. Those on the fringe are likely to try anything, including alcohol if it was illegal. Keep in mind that the US government tried to ban it, but the goras love their alcohol.
The prejudice against pot is strictly racial, not to mention political. Pot (more specifically hemp) actually affects many industries and lobbyists push hard for pot restrictions.
As far the effects it has, if you've ever met someone who's smoked a bit of pot, you'll see that they're just more relaxed and happy. Whereas alcohol has varying effects, ranging from relaxed to belligerent.
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mm there are some who get paranoid after smoking pot too though. but i fully agree with alcohol and tobacco being worse, and the legalization issues don't have a lot to do with objective harm done to humans or society.
i wonder if those that consider pot to be evil etc think bhaang is just as bad. because the high is the exact same one - from the same chemical compound THC.
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choose one for urself…
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^Omg I felt dizzy after 30 seconds.
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nope.i just approve of sniffing baby power. thats it.
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Many good points made by several folks above. A good argument can be made for legalizing pot (just as cigarettes and alcohol are legal).
Brings us back full circe re: OP. What is her best course of action? (At this point, I dont know anymore).
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Is this really an issue for Pakistanis these days??
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nope.i just approve of sniffing baby power. thats it.
Baby powder reminded me about a prank we pulled on a kid in high school, we had this kid who was desperate to become friends with me and my peeps, so to intiate him in our group we told him he'll have to sniff a line of coke, we mixed crushed rockets, laundry detergent, and flour, we made a line 7 inches long and he sniffed it all. Needless to say but we never let him in our group and continued to pull pranks on him.
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nope.i just approve of sniffing baby power. thats it.
Dude, whitener is where it's at. That was the shiz back in elementary school
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Is this really an issue for Pakistanis these days??
i dont understand what u mean ..
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Is this really an issue for Pakistanis these days??
Nops...after marrying a gunda, marrying an actor, then marrying a guy who lied that he had 2 kids and married lol it really shouldn't be. I'm just wondering, can it get any worse than that?