women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

[Danish_Born_Desi]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

@mulz

Maybe she is a hypocrate.. I dont listen to her. But I talked about the DNA thing.. how do you account for France and other western countries’ open approach towards nudity.. They have tons of nude beaches in S. France… In Denmark most of the current generation doesnt know their parentage cuz everyone indulged in sex so much in 70s-90s that it has become hard to conduct the DNA tests for almost everyone.. They say that the US is not embracing open sexuality at all and it is religiously conservative.

Yes its pretty crazy how sexually liberated they are here in Denmark. They have made these special areas at supermarkets where u can do single, couple or orgie sex if u suddenly wud get the “itch” while grocery shopping.

Regarding woman or men for that sake finding their own spouse isnt always a problem. It depends on how u find ur partner. If u go jumping from one guy/girl to the next then yes ur a cheapo. But if ur sincere and refrain from being physically intimate then there shudnt be any probz at all with finding ur own partner. And if sum ppl have problems wit it..well..then thats there problem why do u care abt that?

[Sara516]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

Are you serious ????

[Danish_Born_Desi]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

LOL..no silly!

[Sara516]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

[Danish_Born_Desi]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

I mean i was kidding abt the sex in the supermarket thing!

[Sara516]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

I know !! :(

[Danish_Born_Desi]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

U freak Choti bachi ho aur phir bhi in fazool things ka itna shauk hai. U need a good spanking..ehmm..well u know what i mean!

[Sara516]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

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[Anil_Khan]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

I can't believe all the male bashing that goes on amongst the Pakistani girls/women (I don't like the word "desi"). I have never been around any females (pakistani, that is) that have ever praised or said good things about their husbands.

Its sad really; it seems like you guys are never happy. If you think that your husbands should follow your every word and treat it as a command, then I'm sorry to disappoint you but its not gonna happen. Its not in our genes. However, if you give respect and love to your husbands then I'm sure they will do everything in their power to give you all the happiness they can give/ (afford) :).

[dutch_paki]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

@Anil Khan

I have never been around any females (pakistani, that is) that have ever praised or said good things about their husbands.

You need a new social circle aswell

[Dushwari]

Re: Young Pakistani Women who hope to find men for themselves, are “made” to be loser

Bravo,

Sara!

@Sara516

Alot of guys date women wiht the promise “we’ll get married/engaged” and when time comes, they back out or his parents dont like her, or otherwise relationship falls apart.. n it is seen as a bad thing for grlz to be choosin tehir own partners or to even have any opinion on it! I know lots of grlz who’ve had no voice in the matter of who they spend their life with, their parents take care of it when tehyre’ in HS (so tha they dont get “kharab” in college ) n to a lesser xtreme, my mom wudnt let me say anythin in public abt it (only to her n my dad personally)..

And why r u ppl getting on this person for saying things r “rotten” insteaed of doing soemthing abt it? How do you know she or others aren’t doing something abt it? Last time I checked, we do have a right to vent n let out or frustrations here, ( as well as look for solid solutions)

[Dushwari]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

Anil,

You do not go through what women go through, when young men betray these young women. Baat ana kee hey, asool kee hey, insaaf kee hey.

God is over looking all of us. No, it is not male-bashing. I am not perfect. You're not perfect... all of us are not god-like.

Yet, we are "humankind", because we have the ability to "think" and communicate our worries and concerns, voice our sense of injustice and express due disgust against hypocrisy.

Ever since the beginning of time, marriages between suitable males and females have been the basis of a society, and since to a considerable extent - recently, dating, has become so basic a part of South East Asian culture, we have our ethics. And all I want to draw attention to, for all of us is that we cannot play the game of winning over, just to let down other people, with whom claims are made to commit and then that does not happen - for better or for worse.

Wish you the best,

DUSH.

@Anil Khan

I can't believe all the male bashing that goes on amongst the Pakistani girls/women (I don't like the word "desi"). I have never been around any females (pakistani, that is) that have ever praised or said good things about their husbands.

Its sad really; it seems like you guys are never happy. If you think that your husbands should follow your every word and treat it as a command, then I'm sorry to disappoint you but its not gonna happen. Its not in our genes. However, if you give respect and love to your husbands then I'm sure they will do everything in their power to give you all the happiness they can give/ (afford) :).

[Sara516]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

@Anil Khan

I can’t believe all the male bashing that goes on amongst the Pakistani girls/women (I don’t like the word “desi”). I have never been around any females (pakistani, that is) that have ever praised or said good things about their husbands.

Its sad really; it seems like you guys are never happy. If you think that your husbands should follow your every word and treat it as a command, then I’m sorry to disappoint you but its not gonna happen. Its not in our genes. However, if you give respect and love to your husbands then I’m sure they will do everything in their power to give you all the happiness they can give/ (afford) :).

If you dont know a SINGLE grl who praises her husband, well, dont ya think its the hubby’s fault? Why always blame the grl?

[Anil_Khan]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

^ Sometimes it is; however, sometimes I feel the ladies are asking for too much.

[Sara516]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

What u think is too much? Really, if a woman is always complaining, and/or unhappy, he must play a factor in her unhappiness.

[Anil_Khan]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

I don't have specific examples but sometimes when I'm hearing these complaints it feels like the smallest thing the man does its the end of the world.

[Sara516]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

Maybe htey just need to vent.. not everone is willing to share their happiness wit ppl, if they dotn want gandi nazar on em :D

[gundaa]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

yes that is correct ,but pakistani women do pretend to be respectable wen underground they are even more depraved than western women.all depravityis committed in secret by pakistani women so men should make full
enquiries abt them first.

[system]

Re: women who hope to find men for themselves, are a loser.

@PyariCgudia

You know, idiots marrying idiots breeding further idiots who can’t survive to reproduce because of ridiculously low IQ’s.

fingers crossed

Totally baseless claim.

[Afridi786]

Re: Young Pakistani Women who hope to find men for themselves, are "made" to be losers.

There is another double standard, people regard women as pious and men as sinful, how rotten is that? Thats why it comes to no shock to people when men are sinning, but there is a shock when women are sinning. Is that good or bad?