Women and Sex

[Sara516]

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@lussi

but but..what if the guy has a really good sense of humour, is in touch with his sensitive side, treats the wife as a queen, can take long walks on the beach holding hands, can’t help but shed tears at a faboulous sunset..i mean surely then even if he can’t sexually satisfy the wife…the girl would still stick with him? no? or have i totally misread the women kind?

I think if a guy did all that stuff to make her happy, then he’d deff try to make her happy in teh sac? Don’t these two go hand in hand? I mean if he didn’t care ot make her happy in bed, he wudn’t do those other things either.. and if its a medical condition, it can alwyas be helped..

[AnGeL_EyEs]

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@lussi

but but..what if the guy has a really good sense of humour, is in touch with his sensitive side, treats the wife as a queen, can take long walks on the beach holding hands, can't help but shed tears at a faboulous sunset..i mean surely then even if he can't sexually satisfy the wife...the girl would still stick with him? no? or have i totally misread the women kind?

that must mean he's gay!

[AnGeL_EyEs]

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on a serious note though....if the guy was perfect in every other way....then yes i would stick around....but only if there is a medical reason for not being able to perform. If he just isnt into it or doesnt seem to care about my needs...then no i wouldnt because that shows the kind of person he is....selfish and inconsiderate. With that said....i wouldnt give up easily on our marriage....i would try to get to the root of the problem first.

[Afridi786]

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Originally Posted by Afridi786
besides if u love someone sex doesnt really mean that much.

@Sara516

so when guys say that “if u really loved me, u’d have sex with me,” its a very valid argument, and if she did love him, she would…nice to know, its amazing how superficial relationships have gotten these days…everythings about sex.

[SolarOceans]

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Funny how when the roles are reversed, sex shouldn't matter as much to women.
but for men, well, sex is their world.
God forbid women be into sex as well.

[Afridi786]

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^I'd rather have no sex and be with the person I love, than have meaningless sex with an endless amount of supermodels but that is just me, I'm sure some men and women feel the same. That is the point i was making..sex isn't everything.

[PhatBalongri]

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I dont think shes talking about a guy being able to give her a gazillion orgasms, shes talking about the more intimate part...the part that shows you care...lol nevermind guys wont understand

[SolarOceans]

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Afridi, i hope you mean that :)

[Afridi786]

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Phat: Thats what I mean, if he tries and can't do it, at least he's trying right.

[PhatBalongri]

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thats if he tries though...theres A LOT of men out there who dont even care how their wife feels, what she wants etc They think the wife is there for their pleasure only that she has no sexual desires which is very incorrect.

[Afridi786]

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^True

[Pinnacle]

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@LegallyBrown

erm thats a bit too extreme, Im talking bout basic sexual needs

it doesnt even have to do with sex what bout physical needs.

women like being held and hugged and cuddled

what if a man refused to undertsand these needs would it be islamically correct then?

Screw sacrifice

maybe u shud explain to him ur needs. most guys dun even know how much cuddles and hugs mean to us!
guyz are eva so practical, i bet they cant imagine why we wanna be held and kissed everyday.

[nstar777]

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@Afridi786

^I'd rather have no sex and be with the person I love, than have meaningless sex with an endless amount of supermodels but that is just me, I'm sure some men and women feel the same. That is the point i was making..sex isn't everything.

What is meaningless sex?? It has always been meaningful to me.
Lolzzzz:) :) :) :) :)

[Naughty_by_Nature]

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Afridi bro...are you a virgin?...i can guarantee that if you were getting some you wouldnt say you would be happy with no sex...

And as for a man not performing...penetration isnt the only part of sex...i knew a girl who didnt care about sex but loved recieving oral...and unless you have a broken tongue you have no excuse not to do that...

It seems boys hate it...white guys love it...black boys dont admit they do it and asain boys tend not to do it...but they will expect in return...now thats not poor performance based on incapability...thats poor performance based on selfishness...if you wanted to satisfy your girl you would do it...and as far i was concerned part of the enjoyment was knowing you are satisfying your other half...

There is never a situation where someone cant perform...impotence is one thing...poor performance is another...

If someone cant satsify their women...theres no excuse

[Afridi786]

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Stop being crude Afridi.

Thanks.

[sweetpip]

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@Naughty by Nature

It seems boys hate it...white guys love it...black boys dont admit they do it and asain boys tend not to do it...but they will expect in return...now thats not poor performance based on incapability...thats poor performance based on selfishness...if you wanted to satisfy your girl you would do it...and as far i was concerned part of the enjoyment was knowing you are satisfying your other half...

This concept is not part of the desi guys genetic make-up

[saieen]

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mein te phattay chak daine naain [she knows/trust me & my phattay ] …

for those who said sex is not important in a marriage…well wake up and smell the pillow…sex is just as important a bond as anything else in a marriage.its a need/necessity for both partners and both should do their best [within limits] to satisfy eachother.i have no problem to be creative or to deviate from regular boring sexual activities to spice up the things.whatever can rock her boat will rock’n’roll me too… it
should be a two way traffic and not just me me and only me. :halo:

[LegallyBrown]

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@sweetpip

This concept is not part of the desi guys genetic make-up

Its got nothing to do bout genetic makeup..

Desi dudes are just lazy and selfish

[AQ]

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@LegallyBrown

Or just stay married and have extra marital affairs??

What is your opinion? Please, Share.

[LegallyBrown]

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Im not married. My opinions dont count in such circumstances.