Re: Wives warning / threatening their husbands not to keep a beard
^ I just posted a picture, stating this wasnt the one that was 'in fashion', like the poster above me said, you are the one 'assuming' I am evaluating it.
every thread I start to read turns into an Indian Soap 
Saeed bhai is 
a role model for many of us and his beard is according to sunnah ..
I strongly object the random use of his picture For the sole purpose of mocking the sunnah ..
Re: Wives warning / threatening their husbands not to keep a beard
I agree, Saeed bhai looks very good mashaAllah. This kind of beard "is" in fashion in a lot of places in Pakistan and many arab countries.
May Allah (swt) reward him for following a Sunnah of the Prophet (saw).
Fashion is haraam!dont be so foolish dude.. I posted a picture of Saeed Anwar in reply to show that this sort of dhari is ‘not in fashion’ and NOT mocking the sunnah or anything of that sort??? I like Anwar too (one of my favourite batsmen), and I never commented on how he looks.
On a side note, please keep a dhari just like that, no ones stopping you.
Re: Wives warning / threatening their husbands not to keep a beard
I don't understand why beard is being associated with 'fashion' here??? It's for the love of our Prophet PBUH! Im sure that when Saeed Anwar grew out a beard, it wasn't so he could wake up and admire his beauty in the mirror each day. God!
Re: Wives warning / threatening their husbands not to keep a beard
^ I agree, if someone wants to keep it that badly, keep it but coming out here trying to prove it looks good and is 'fashion' just doesnt work.
Please don’t speak on the behalf of ladies. Let them reply themselves whoever wants to disagree.
Fashion is Haraam ? Please provide reference of an authentic source before giving such a statement.
Ofcourse one should follow it with an intention of following a sunnah, I gave my reply after checking its meaning from dictionary.
Source: Dictionary.com
^ I agree, if someone wants to keep it that badly, keep it but coming out here trying **to prove it looks good **and is 'fashion' just doesnt work.
Please let people comment on the basis of their own judgment. If anyone thinks it looks good, he has a right to think like that.
Re: Wives warning / threatening their husbands not to keep a beard
again..there is no evidence to be found anywhere in the Holy Book that suggest keeping the beard is equivalent to following the Prophet(pbuh)
on the side note....even the Hadith does NOT direct you to keep one, it only asks that if you decide to keep one, do it properly...ie..trim it and dye it..so you AT LEAST look presentable...HENCE growing one is not mandatory...it is your personal choice...
look around...keeping a beard is not necessarily an *Islamic *practice...nor cutting it is a violation of any law..when you say.."...wives threatening.." it sounds very negative...as if the wife is committing some sort of a crime by expressing her dislike for the beard!!
why the hell did this major "maulvi" marry such a woman in the first place
secondly if a woman insists on such a irrational demand then its time to get rid of her or alteast threaten with divorce so she changes her way
is this what you being a mighty man yourself and your mighty mother and sister did with your first wife?
you are a sick power hungry dog and your mother and sister corrupt sick mongrels
Re: Wives warning / threatening their husbands not to keep a beard
by looking at the history of the west and east...
a beard's length..style and significance vary from one tradition to another...for some it means status or power..for others its iconic....and for some it might be for hiding facial disfigurements...everyone has their own reasons...but I and I believe many....many people find it hard to believe it is some sort of religious requirement per Islam.....there is no prohibition when it comes to shaving..i think somewhere down the line..culture and religion got mixed up...and now certain practices have been declared "obligatory" by god knows who! when in essence they were once just as common as owning a pair of blue jeans...
look around...keeping a beard is not necessarily an Islamic *practice...nor cutting it is a violation of any law..when you say.."...wives threatening.." it sounds very negative...as if the wife is committing some sort of a crime by expressing her dislike for the beard!!*
yes it does sound like the thread opener sees women who dislike beards as an enemy of the religion and an enemy of muslim men. it was quite disturbing to read the title of this thread actually!
yes it does sound like the thread opener sees women who dislike beards as an enemy of the religion and an enemy of muslim men. it was quite disturbing to read the title of this thread actually!
i know...the funny thing is...how is "muslim men" synonymous with 'keeping a beard'??
also..its very presumptuous for someone to think of the wives who dont like beards as sinners...its offensive and judgmental...what authority do they have to believe something like that...?--a serious question--
i guess all the religious fanatics poured into this thread like cake batter into cake pan!
Re: Wives warning / threatening their husbands not to keep a beard
Please stop judging on the basis of mere assumptions of your own. The intention of this topic is clear in the first post. And I have cleared it on the basis of the incident I shared. I actually know people whose wives have been THREATENING them to not keep a beard.
Now please search the past threads on *"Husbands should not force their wives to wear/ not wear hijaab" *
In that case I never found comments like:
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when you say.."...Husbands forcing.." it sounds very negative...as if the husbands is committing some sort of a crime by expressing his dislike for/ against Hijaab!!
yes it does sound like the thread opener sees Husbands who dislike / like hijaabs as an enemy of the religion and an enemy of muslim women. it was quite disturbing to read the title of this thread actually!
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i know...the funny thing is...how is "muslim men" synonymous with 'keeping a beard'??
In your personal opinion that is, which I respect. There are many people all over the world who have done their sincere research for years and are convinced that** "muslim men" IS synonymous with 'keeping a beard'.** Let us respect their beliefs as well.
Please stop judging on the basis of mere assumptions of your own. The intention of this topic is clear in the first post. And I have cleared it on the basis of the incident I shared. I actually know people whose wives have been THREATENING them to not keep a beard.
Now please search the past threads on *"Husbands should not force their wives to wear/ not wear hijaab" *
In that case I never found comments like: ** when you say.."...Husbands forcing.." it sounds very negative...as if the husbands is committing some sort of a crime by expressing his dislike for/ against Hijaab!!
yes it does sound like the thread opener sees Husbands who dislike / like hijaabs as an enemy of the religion and an enemy of muslim women. it was quite disturbing to read the title of this thread actually!
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threats are not a great way of communicating with your partner, not for this matter, or for any other....
seriously....just throwing a little logic here......if a wife doesnt like her husband's beard, it is not equal to his objection over her hijab......
threats are not a great of communicating with your partner, not for this matter, or for any other.... seriously....just throwing a little logic here......if a wife doesnt like her husband's beard, it is not equal to his objection over her hijab......
It is all about what a person likes / dislikes for himself /herself "personally" and prefers something as part of his /her OWN appearance, whether it is beard or hijaab. A women who doesn't want to be bothered by her husband in terms of deciding anything as part of her appearance, should NOT bother her husband in deciding anything as part of his appearance, and vice versa.
And I agree threats is NOT a great way of communicating with one's partner.